I was never close to her but when I was younger, I loved staying over because the flat bore a complicating structure which made hide-n-seek very thrilling to play. I also remembered being given a red jade bangle which my mom made me wear, only to smash it to pieces a few weeks later.
And the last I saw her was in May when twins Aidan and Ian celebrated their one-month. She was always reserved, seemingly stoic, only choosing to be close to her favourite grandchildren.
She slipped on a puddle of water in the kitchen last month which had her hospitalized for days. As part of protocol perhaps, she was given a thorough check-up and doctors found her lungs infected beyond recognition. During her hospitalization, many people went to visit her and she was given an operation. After getting the all-clear, she stayed at my dai kaofu's (Big Uncle) place and all seemed well until 3am this morning. She stopped breathing.
Sis told me Grandma knew...that the fall was meant to be, for people to see her awake the last time and vice versa. I am very saddened by this relevation. I wonder when people don't show/feel any exterior physical signs of dying, do they already know their time is near?
Michelin just lent me The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom. I haven't started reading it yet but I flipped the 1st page, just yesterday, and found Albom started the beginning with an ending. He said that endings are also beginnings. We just didn't know it at that time. And so "goodbye" may not be the correct word and death shouldn't be so negative (and frightening) afterall......
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Meh-hee-co
I'm a little frazzled yet explosive today. Not sure why but it could have been my mom (again)....but nothing serious this time.
So anyway, I feel like blogging something bimbotic and random. No concern to our everyday lives, to Iraq War, to the impending GST rise, to the latest trend. Well.............maybe to the latest trend. I believe the papers cited him as the next Antonio Banderas (how can???) - but they got it right for one. Gael Garcia Bernal is Mexican and he is great. To look at in terms of appearance and acting.
Forget about Korean actors lah...this hottie will make you sit right up. :P
So anyway, I feel like blogging something bimbotic and random. No concern to our everyday lives, to Iraq War, to the impending GST rise, to the latest trend. Well.............maybe to the latest trend. I believe the papers cited him as the next Antonio Banderas (how can???) - but they got it right for one. Gael Garcia Bernal is Mexican and he is great. To look at in terms of appearance and acting.
Forget about Korean actors lah...this hottie will make you sit right up. :P
Monday, January 15, 2007
Shen returns!
It was a daring move but I managed to skive for 1.5 hours this morning.
I rarely hug people. I dun like it...the touchy-feely of it, the mushiness but seeing Shen made me speechless and I just wanted to embrace this good ole friend whom I haven't seen in years. Not as long as some friends but well, it's hard to put in words.
I finally met his partner, Peter too and brought them to eat my favourite prata and teh tarik. 1.5 hours too short but 1.5 hours fabulously spent nonetheless.
PS: Zouk for good ole days?? :P
I rarely hug people. I dun like it...the touchy-feely of it, the mushiness but seeing Shen made me speechless and I just wanted to embrace this good ole friend whom I haven't seen in years. Not as long as some friends but well, it's hard to put in words.
I finally met his partner, Peter too and brought them to eat my favourite prata and teh tarik. 1.5 hours too short but 1.5 hours fabulously spent nonetheless.
PS: Zouk for good ole days?? :P
How do I divide thyself?
Becks and Mong are growing up fast, physically. They weigh about 18 and 12kg respectively and have been clamouring for my attention of late. "Mummy, carry me!" They'd cry out in unison.
So...do I take turns? Who do I pick up first without the other feeling jealous? How do I minimize my physical damage (the soreness on my left is started to throb, the first since my surgery)? How do I not do it excessively so as to encourage?
2 (kids) is truly enough...................
So...do I take turns? Who do I pick up first without the other feeling jealous? How do I minimize my physical damage (the soreness on my left is started to throb, the first since my surgery)? How do I not do it excessively so as to encourage?
2 (kids) is truly enough...................
Sunday, January 14, 2007
:B returns!
Finally we managed to sit down for a long chat over a meal and teh si...after 2 months plus. :B returns for a week for business in her hometown.
The 3 of us had a lot of fun with the boobs and penis chocolates she brought back. The Japanese are really amazing. Sex sells in any form.
The 3 of us had a lot of fun with the boobs and penis chocolates she brought back. The Japanese are really amazing. Sex sells in any form.
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Last till a long long time............
The usual 4-some lunch was great...it's probably the last one till a long long time.
Sis will depart this Friday morning, the timing scheduled deliberately to avoid soapy farewells.
And my 2nd oh-nee this week. It's been some time since we had a family dinner. I took a few nice pics with sis. Will post only when I dare to (haha).
Sis will depart this Friday morning, the timing scheduled deliberately to avoid soapy farewells.
And my 2nd oh-nee this week. It's been some time since we had a family dinner. I took a few nice pics with sis. Will post only when I dare to (haha).
Friday, January 12, 2007
Lunch with Jess
Jess has been a good friend since college days. She studied in Canada and worked there since, coming back only occasionally. So for her to return this time after 2 years, I was very keen on catching up with her.
The 1st thing she said when she met me was: "Can we go to a place where there is ice kachang?"
Heh. I forget the simple pleasures in life...in Singapore.
PS: Favourite pals :B and Shen are returning for a while too! :)
The 1st thing she said when she met me was: "Can we go to a place where there is ice kachang?"
Heh. I forget the simple pleasures in life...in Singapore.
PS: Favourite pals :B and Shen are returning for a while too! :)
Co-ordination (part 2)
I knew the price to pay for such clumsiness would be an ulcer. So when I felt pain whenever I ate (more so for spicy foods), I tried to stay optimistic by reminding myself this is all temporary. But the pain persisted for days and this morning, I flipped out my lower lip only to see not 1, not 2 but 3 big ulcers!
Wednesday, January 10, 2007
bcc
You know which kind of colleague/boss I detest most????????
Those who like to bcc inappropriately, in other words, ABUSING the use of it, solely for selfish and sneaky reasons. I just found out that an email which my boss sent me pertaining to a sensitive issue was bcc to my HR. Thanks to big-and-itchy-mouthed CF (if you have been following my blog, CF is HR Manager), the minute she saw me come into the office this morning, she came to me and went: "Wow, the man is heated up isn't he?"
My mind reeled back to all the past emails which he had sent and I wonder which had been bcc-ed and to whom. Shudder...that bastard.
Those who like to bcc inappropriately, in other words, ABUSING the use of it, solely for selfish and sneaky reasons. I just found out that an email which my boss sent me pertaining to a sensitive issue was bcc to my HR. Thanks to big-and-itchy-mouthed CF (if you have been following my blog, CF is HR Manager), the minute she saw me come into the office this morning, she came to me and went: "Wow, the man is heated up isn't he?"
My mind reeled back to all the past emails which he had sent and I wonder which had been bcc-ed and to whom. Shudder...that bastard.
Growing Up
Mong is growing up fast! He went to school by himself this morning. Waved bye bye to my mom...and boarded it expectantly.
It does get better each day. :)
It does get better each day. :)
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
Yam paste dessert
The food at the Teochew restaurant has not disappointed so far. The oh-nee (yam paste) with pumpkin paste and gingko nuts is soooo diabetic sweet but so good! I like it when guests come. I get to eat these things which I otherwise wouldn't pay out of my own pocket. :P
HE DID IT!
My dearest Mong came home from school by himself on the school bus!!!!!!!!!!!! It's a huge milestone...for me! I AM SO HAPPY!!! *beaming*
Monday, January 08, 2007
Co-ordination
I have been chewing for 3 decades....but I bit my lip twice on the same spot, on separate occasions.
Am I losing my sense of co-ordination???!!!
Am I losing my sense of co-ordination???!!!
Sunday, January 07, 2007
"Mane" gone
Angie brought me to the salon for a haircut.
Finally my horrid "mane" is gone. I feel so much lighter. Washing hair is easier, saving me time, energy and shampoo. Not kidding. Should have done this many moons ago but as usual, finding the time (and willingness) was tough.
Finally my horrid "mane" is gone. I feel so much lighter. Washing hair is easier, saving me time, energy and shampoo. Not kidding. Should have done this many moons ago but as usual, finding the time (and willingness) was tough.
Saturday, January 06, 2007
#01-61
This stall that sells char kway teow at Kovan hawker centre has an endless flow of customers.
Finally after several failed attempts, I got to eat it. So happiness with a capital H fell on Saturday 10am...after sending Becks to her lesson. There I was, savouring the pieces, sipping my teh si and reading The Pact (yes yes I'm still at it after 1 month +?!).
Next week is M's turn. He's waited long enough. :D
Finally after several failed attempts, I got to eat it. So happiness with a capital H fell on Saturday 10am...after sending Becks to her lesson. There I was, savouring the pieces, sipping my teh si and reading The Pact (yes yes I'm still at it after 1 month +?!).
Next week is M's turn. He's waited long enough. :D
Friday, January 05, 2007
My time...my space
I could have cancelled my leave.
With both the troops in school, I spent the morning watching Lemming with the volume way up and without earphones (trust me, this is VERY rare)....taking in the beauty of French language, something I doubt I will tire of.
I thought of my boss calling out my name for the tiniest of things and the luxury of having NOTHING important to do at home, literally staring at the ceiling...that thrilled me. And so I stayed at home alone. I LOVE IT!!! *I'm so deprived lately...*
With both the troops in school, I spent the morning watching Lemming with the volume way up and without earphones (trust me, this is VERY rare)....taking in the beauty of French language, something I doubt I will tire of.
I thought of my boss calling out my name for the tiniest of things and the luxury of having NOTHING important to do at home, literally staring at the ceiling...that thrilled me. And so I stayed at home alone. I LOVE IT!!! *I'm so deprived lately...*
Thursday, January 04, 2007
Mong's 1st day of School!
For lack of inspiration to blog long and lack of vocabularly, I shall summarize it in one word: TOUGH.
Physically and emotionally and mentally. For me.
As for him, I am sure it had been emotional too. The separation anxiety was immense. I can't do this again tomorrow. Time to request for my good ole old lady (my mom!) to help.
It has been a very difficult period adjusting. Day and night. But I will not relinquish. It's time for my boy to grow up anyways...and this he shall...and will for sure. I stay optimistic by choosing to see the 'light at the end of the tunnel'.
Physically and emotionally and mentally. For me.
As for him, I am sure it had been emotional too. The separation anxiety was immense. I can't do this again tomorrow. Time to request for my good ole old lady (my mom!) to help.
It has been a very difficult period adjusting. Day and night. But I will not relinquish. It's time for my boy to grow up anyways...and this he shall...and will for sure. I stay optimistic by choosing to see the 'light at the end of the tunnel'.
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Missed...
And so, Mong missed this 1st official day of school. After tripping over and falling flat on his lip *ouch* just minutes before the school van arrived. Sigh.Tomorrow will be a better day!
Friday, December 29, 2006
A Curse?
If it happens again, I'm gonna be very convinced that Boxing Day is cursed.
I know it's probably nothing compared with fatalities...or if you are running your own business you are the one suffering the loss. Still, personally, the shitty thing is that it left us operations staff very crippled. No thanks to our company for not having a contingency plan. Kept asking me if it can be done manually. Fuck...any other choice? Of course manual can be done, afterall it's back to the drawing board so quit asking me Boss!
And so, the last working day of the year wasn't something worth blogging too much....
I know it's probably nothing compared with fatalities...or if you are running your own business you are the one suffering the loss. Still, personally, the shitty thing is that it left us operations staff very crippled. No thanks to our company for not having a contingency plan. Kept asking me if it can be done manually. Fuck...any other choice? Of course manual can be done, afterall it's back to the drawing board so quit asking me Boss!
And so, the last working day of the year wasn't something worth blogging too much....
Retail Therapy...NOT
I had half-day off...I spent it with M, having a sumptuous but very expensive lunch at Sushi Tei (let's wise up and have steak at the Russian place next time lah).
We were like a couple of slobs, always looking forward to 'tea break' at 4pm. We really couldn't bring ourselves to enjoy shopping. I marvel at people thronging the malls, feverishly rummaging through bargains, poring themselves over apparels at branded shops. WHERE DID THEY GET THEIR ENERGY FROM? Or rather, WHERE DID MY ENERGY GO? Oh, I do have energy a'rite...just not in shopping. It's confirmed - I hate it.
It wasn't entirely fruitless though. We bought 2 sets of bedsheets. Time to change the sad ones...
We were like a couple of slobs, always looking forward to 'tea break' at 4pm. We really couldn't bring ourselves to enjoy shopping. I marvel at people thronging the malls, feverishly rummaging through bargains, poring themselves over apparels at branded shops. WHERE DID THEY GET THEIR ENERGY FROM? Or rather, WHERE DID MY ENERGY GO? Oh, I do have energy a'rite...just not in shopping. It's confirmed - I hate it.
It wasn't entirely fruitless though. We bought 2 sets of bedsheets. Time to change the sad ones...
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Curse of the Golden Flower
No curse at all. In fact let me rephrase - I watched the movie and enjoyed it! I owe it to the fact it's a drama starring 2 of the most charismatic leads I've ever seen, regardless the era, regardless how painful watching Jay Chou's facial expression was, regardless how distracted I was by Gong Li's mammaries (very distracted).
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
The Motorcycle Diaries
Since I can't get the real thing, I can always find it on screen.
I've seen the DVD on the shelf for the longest time, aware that it's highly-acclaimed. But not recently when I gave up the business trip to Brazil and realising my colleagues are finally returning from the almost-2-week trip that I believed it is time.
The Motorcycle Diaries features a South American roadtrip made by 2 friends with similar aspirations. Though it doesn't include Brazil, it still shows the sights and people of other countries like Peru and Chile. And like most other foreign films, it's always the narration (quotes) that impresses me.
PS: And yes, my colleagues are back from an almost-2 week long, almost-40-hour flight journey, all in 1 piece.
I've seen the DVD on the shelf for the longest time, aware that it's highly-acclaimed. But not recently when I gave up the business trip to Brazil and realising my colleagues are finally returning from the almost-2-week trip that I believed it is time.
The Motorcycle Diaries features a South American roadtrip made by 2 friends with similar aspirations. Though it doesn't include Brazil, it still shows the sights and people of other countries like Peru and Chile. And like most other foreign films, it's always the narration (quotes) that impresses me.
PS: And yes, my colleagues are back from an almost-2 week long, almost-40-hour flight journey, all in 1 piece.
Boxing Day
It's simply spelt M-I-R-A-C-L-E.
It's been raining dinosaurs and gorillas since early morning but there was NO traffic jam on CTE. I reached office on time. I think this can only happen once a year.
It's been raining dinosaurs and gorillas since early morning but there was NO traffic jam on CTE. I reached office on time. I think this can only happen once a year.
Monday, December 25, 2006
The Birdpark
Dun forget what Singapore has - Jurong Birdpark.
We couldn't bring ourselves to stay in (home, sheltered and boring shopping centres) when the weather was so good. I dun remember how the birdpark looked like but when we arrived there, I knew 3 places to hit - penguins, birds of prey and the owls. Very sad for the big birds though. Birds are meant to be free....but they were all caged for our viewing. Sometimes I wonder if it isn't enough just watching and reading National Geographic.
Seeing the waterfall brought back memories of a photograph taken of my class of 1986....2 friggin' decades ago.
I'm glad we visited.
We couldn't bring ourselves to stay in (home, sheltered and boring shopping centres) when the weather was so good. I dun remember how the birdpark looked like but when we arrived there, I knew 3 places to hit - penguins, birds of prey and the owls. Very sad for the big birds though. Birds are meant to be free....but they were all caged for our viewing. Sometimes I wonder if it isn't enough just watching and reading National Geographic.
Seeing the waterfall brought back memories of a photograph taken of my class of 1986....2 friggin' decades ago.
I'm glad we visited.
Sunday, December 24, 2006
House-warming
It was so rushing but I'm glad we dropped by D&E's place at Bishan St 22.
This is a couple who bears no grudges, harbours no illwill towards people they know and tries their best to be the host with whatever limited means.
I'll see you again for sure.
This is a couple who bears no grudges, harbours no illwill towards people they know and tries their best to be the host with whatever limited means.
I'll see you again for sure.
Friday, December 22, 2006
(Not) In the Mood for Christmas
I really dislike Christmas. I may sound like a grinch if I go on .... actually it's more the (artificial) mood that is created nearing the festive season that I really dislike.
DJs sounding more perky than necessary, colleagues around me claiming excitedly they have 'no mood' to work (thank you very much - me too but I am still not well and have tons of work and a stoooopid deadline to meet for the e-project so please shut up), people talking about drinking and being merry, etc.
I was listening to this crisp angelic voice on Symphony 92.4 this morning, singing a melodious tune about returning home for Christmas....and I thought about the homeless. People having only garbage bags to use as blankets in the cold (in countries having winter now). I remembered Say once said (something like that) - having a White Christmas can be beautiful but the cold is a double-edged sword.
It's a strange sudden thought. Maybe it's just like why people dun eat meat, dun eat sharksfin. I can't rejoice because I remember the less fortunate (logical?). Are they forgotten already? Surely they must feel so much worse than me.
Thanks Phyllis, for sending that email. I kept thinking I was hitting mild depression (every year end of the year??!!)...but the answer is clear now. I am gonna do my bit, within my very limited humble means but it may mean I can finally get 'in the mood'. :)
DJs sounding more perky than necessary, colleagues around me claiming excitedly they have 'no mood' to work (thank you very much - me too but I am still not well and have tons of work and a stoooopid deadline to meet for the e-project so please shut up), people talking about drinking and being merry, etc.
I was listening to this crisp angelic voice on Symphony 92.4 this morning, singing a melodious tune about returning home for Christmas....and I thought about the homeless. People having only garbage bags to use as blankets in the cold (in countries having winter now). I remembered Say once said (something like that) - having a White Christmas can be beautiful but the cold is a double-edged sword.
It's a strange sudden thought. Maybe it's just like why people dun eat meat, dun eat sharksfin. I can't rejoice because I remember the less fortunate (logical?). Are they forgotten already? Surely they must feel so much worse than me.
Thanks Phyllis, for sending that email. I kept thinking I was hitting mild depression (every year end of the year??!!)...but the answer is clear now. I am gonna do my bit, within my very limited humble means but it may mean I can finally get 'in the mood'. :)
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Happy Birthday...
...to M!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, do the Math yourself - you are 32 this year (how can you even ask me?). No more, no less.
Yes, do the Math yourself - you are 32 this year (how can you even ask me?). No more, no less.
"Golden Shower"
Mong is long toilet-trained (day) already.
But of course there are moments of forgetfuless. Yesterday when he was watching Hi-5 on my lap, I felt warmth...he freakin' pee-d on me! I swear that he will be the only male person in this lifetime of mine who can do the "golden shower" on me!
PS: There was a very careful choice of words up there in case anyone misconstrues and accuses me of perversion. :P
But of course there are moments of forgetfuless. Yesterday when he was watching Hi-5 on my lap, I felt warmth...he freakin' pee-d on me! I swear that he will be the only male person in this lifetime of mine who can do the "golden shower" on me!
PS: There was a very careful choice of words up there in case anyone misconstrues and accuses me of perversion. :P
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Torture
My throat feels like it's been stabbed 1,000 times. With a recently-sharpened dagger. I wonder how long and how many more lozenges I have to suck.
Talk about pain, I can think of several. Listening to "Square Rooms" over and over (anybody remembers who sang this?), going to Mambo Zouk (yes, you are getting the idea I dislike retro songs), trying to perfect my Mandarin whenever I speak to PRCs or Taiwanese (i.e. my system vendor), pretending to look interested in what O has to say and having to face her trying-to-appear-angelic face at the same time, realising I'm hitting 33 and zits are still sprouting...
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I brought the Taiwanese guests to Vivocity for dinner yesterday evening. We ate at Modesto's...for lack of ideas. It turned out that the service and food were good enough to make the dining experience very pleasant. We were given a table with a good view...but as usual, it was spoilt for me...with me, myself and I ended up ordering the wrong kinda pasta, cursing. They didn't have much chance to take it all in except that of course, they noticed the place was huge and crowded.
"Geek meeting" ends today! Yay!
Note: I dun fear making decisions and can be pretty confident in most of them. But when it comes to ordering Italian food, please do not get me involved.
Talk about pain, I can think of several. Listening to "Square Rooms" over and over (anybody remembers who sang this?), going to Mambo Zouk (yes, you are getting the idea I dislike retro songs), trying to perfect my Mandarin whenever I speak to PRCs or Taiwanese (i.e. my system vendor), pretending to look interested in what O has to say and having to face her trying-to-appear-angelic face at the same time, realising I'm hitting 33 and zits are still sprouting...
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I brought the Taiwanese guests to Vivocity for dinner yesterday evening. We ate at Modesto's...for lack of ideas. It turned out that the service and food were good enough to make the dining experience very pleasant. We were given a table with a good view...but as usual, it was spoilt for me...with me, myself and I ended up ordering the wrong kinda pasta, cursing. They didn't have much chance to take it all in except that of course, they noticed the place was huge and crowded.
"Geek meeting" ends today! Yay!
Note: I dun fear making decisions and can be pretty confident in most of them. But when it comes to ordering Italian food, please do not get me involved.
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
Welcome Aboard!
Just a quick word to welcome my bro for jumping on the bandwagon finally (what what....???) - blogging.
Hope you keep it up because I've always enjoyed your views on many matters and it would be wonderful to share it online with many more people. And I'm glad that despite a vast improvement in technology whereby friends may forget how to talk to one another over the telephone or meet up face-to-face anymore, we have not completely allowed advancement to overtake our basic mode of communication and friendship.
Cheers.
Hope you keep it up because I've always enjoyed your views on many matters and it would be wonderful to share it online with many more people. And I'm glad that despite a vast improvement in technology whereby friends may forget how to talk to one another over the telephone or meet up face-to-face anymore, we have not completely allowed advancement to overtake our basic mode of communication and friendship.
Cheers.
The Similarity...and reading
If I knew, I wouldn't want intensity in my life within such close intervals. Luckily the drama is just fictional... *crossing fingers*
Re-watching Award-winning movie, In The Bedroom over the weekend and reading (yes, you read right - reading. me.) Jodi Picoult's The Pact draw similarity to parents experiencing the loss of their child.
Separation by death is painful as it is but to outlive your own child must probably be the MOST torturous.
I'm barely done with the book but I like Picoult's style so far. If I'm finished, I will proudly claim it to be the 2nd one since June 2004. :P I think people hardly read these days. Always on the go. Swept by the hustle and bustle of life. And so, in wading through a hectic lifestyle, one completely loses interest. Then there remains no other reason or excuse why one doesn't read anymore. Simply, NO more interest.
Hence I marvel at M's unwavering interest...that has certainly survived through time. :)
Re-watching Award-winning movie, In The Bedroom over the weekend and reading (yes, you read right - reading. me.) Jodi Picoult's The Pact draw similarity to parents experiencing the loss of their child.
Separation by death is painful as it is but to outlive your own child must probably be the MOST torturous.
I'm barely done with the book but I like Picoult's style so far. If I'm finished, I will proudly claim it to be the 2nd one since June 2004. :P I think people hardly read these days. Always on the go. Swept by the hustle and bustle of life. And so, in wading through a hectic lifestyle, one completely loses interest. Then there remains no other reason or excuse why one doesn't read anymore. Simply, NO more interest.
Hence I marvel at M's unwavering interest...that has certainly survived through time. :)
Monday, December 18, 2006
When the going gets tough...
...the tough feels like giving up (but can't)?
2 very* trying mornings (6am mind you)...and counting.
* maybe 'very' now cos I'm sick!!!!
2 very* trying mornings (6am mind you)...and counting.
* maybe 'very' now cos I'm sick!!!!
Friday, December 15, 2006
Ramblings...
Back to the 'discussion' I mentioned yesterday. I must say I appreciated O's input. Though better known for her kpo-ness, she did have good ideas which I shall adopt and give her credit for (if/when the time comes). But as I had an inexplicable insomnious moment between 2-4am this morning, her ramblings *oops* came to my mind again...and I realised how personal she has gotten. And she even added: "It can enable one to become a better manager...." (hey, clever. The discussion was initially intended to be about YOU!)
IRRITATING!!!
Now I'm thinking - what defines a 'good manager' in the first place? We all have our own set of definition. I googled it and had so many weblinks popping up. And I thought even if one possesses all of that, if he/she has one irritating face that rubs most people the wrong face, sorry mate.......................
And so I summarize a 'good manager' in one paradoxical definition - 'male minus his ego'. I think I've just made many enemies in a split second but relax, think about it. What I'm implying is simply, it doesn't fuckin exist.
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Currently listening. Loving it. Jack Mannequin's Dark Blue.
IRRITATING!!!
Now I'm thinking - what defines a 'good manager' in the first place? We all have our own set of definition. I googled it and had so many weblinks popping up. And I thought even if one possesses all of that, if he/she has one irritating face that rubs most people the wrong face, sorry mate.......................
And so I summarize a 'good manager' in one paradoxical definition - 'male minus his ego'. I think I've just made many enemies in a split second but relax, think about it. What I'm implying is simply, it doesn't fuckin exist.
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Currently listening. Loving it. Jack Mannequin's Dark Blue.
Thursday, December 14, 2006
A saying...
I stand firm: Ignorance is bliss.
Dammit. After a 2-hour discussion which I initiated, now I have so much more work to do................
Dammit. After a 2-hour discussion which I initiated, now I have so much more work to do................
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
Happening Aunty
I saw this aunty with no make-up, in her 40s, hair dyed too blond, too frizzy (you get the picture)....She was wearing a tight T-shirt with words - Be Mine.
Whoa. Very bold. Very shameless. I like.
Whoa. Very bold. Very shameless. I like.
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
People...and their cars
It's funny how impersonal our neighbours have become. I'm not an analyzer, going into how globalization has taken most of our time working, shifting our focus on different things, usually material. Or maybe the newer flats have units more spaced out such that we don't seem to make the effort to get to know our neighbours now.
Now our neighbours aren't Mrs or Mr So-and-So with a face. They are solely identified with the cars they drive or even their carplates.
Miffy *seeing a car drive by*: Oh, EU 8111.
M: Yea...ex Mazda 6 driver, now Toyota.
OR
Miffy: Oh SBR666 changed car...to an MPV!
M: Yup, it was a Tuscani coupe.
Miffy: Likely a new addition in their family.
And I don't ever know how they look like.
Now our neighbours aren't Mrs or Mr So-and-So with a face. They are solely identified with the cars they drive or even their carplates.
Miffy *seeing a car drive by*: Oh, EU 8111.
M: Yea...ex Mazda 6 driver, now Toyota.
OR
Miffy: Oh SBR666 changed car...to an MPV!
M: Yup, it was a Tuscani coupe.
Miffy: Likely a new addition in their family.
And I don't ever know how they look like.
Unconditional Love
"The forest is a peculiar organism of unlimited kindness and benevolence, that makes no demands for sustenance and extends generously the products of its activity. It affords protection to all beings, offering shade even to the axeman who destroys it."
The profanity definitely does NOT originate from me. Just quoting from a board which M brought my attention to, yesterday, at the zoo (yes, yet again. We have renewed our FOZ membership for 2007. Ha). It was a truly beautiful message of unconditional love. I thought only parents are capable of that. I forgot about Mother Nature.
Going to the zoo on a Monday is highly recommended. FOZ members get free tram rides too. I think I need a break. Just catching the breeze while I ride on one already thrills me.
I know I have been out of Blogger for a few days in a row...it's been a tough period at work and home. I hope I get to enjoy the holiday season a little bit. I still haven't spoken to my mom yet.... :P
The profanity definitely does NOT originate from me. Just quoting from a board which M brought my attention to, yesterday, at the zoo (yes, yet again. We have renewed our FOZ membership for 2007. Ha). It was a truly beautiful message of unconditional love. I thought only parents are capable of that. I forgot about Mother Nature.
Going to the zoo on a Monday is highly recommended. FOZ members get free tram rides too. I think I need a break. Just catching the breeze while I ride on one already thrills me.
I know I have been out of Blogger for a few days in a row...it's been a tough period at work and home. I hope I get to enjoy the holiday season a little bit. I still haven't spoken to my mom yet.... :P
Monday, December 11, 2006
ATM Card
And for more than a week, I was convinced I lost it (having searched all places I could think of). Maybe my 3rd time this year.
So finally, ridden with anxiety that people may have withdrawn most of my hard-earned savings already, I finally called Customer Service to cancel it. "Ma'am, I would like to confirm it will be cancelled with this call." "Yes." *click*
Next day, a voice told me to look into the side pocket of a bag. There it was.
This is the part when I bang my head against the wall. 100 times.
So finally, ridden with anxiety that people may have withdrawn most of my hard-earned savings already, I finally called Customer Service to cancel it. "Ma'am, I would like to confirm it will be cancelled with this call." "Yes." *click*
Next day, a voice told me to look into the side pocket of a bag. There it was.
This is the part when I bang my head against the wall. 100 times.
Sunday, December 10, 2006
The "Nightmare" is over
Very very slowly and cautiously, we gave Mong his 1st-again drink of milk. He was elated. There was no turbulence in his small tummy and neither did he regurgitate. Happy he was....happy I was too. Finally I can look forward to 1 decent night of sleep...
How much is too much?
I met QT at the museum. She stays next to Tao Nan Primary School so naturally I thought she was sending her son there next year. No, it's Catholic High. "According to the educational psychologist" she's sought to determine which environment would best suit her son, she has decided to send her son to a non-coed school. And since she stays faraway, she has bought a car to chauffeur him to and fro everyday. Well, thank God for low COE now, isn't it?
I apologize. I like QT. In fact she has given me very valuable advice in what steps I should take when I expressed my anxiety over Mong's slow speech development. But she NEVER fails to set my panic button.
Speaking of this, my congratulations to Germ. I doubt she will have the energy to read my blog for some time now that Baby Darius is born. Now you know *snicker*. Welcome aboard!
I apologize. I like QT. In fact she has given me very valuable advice in what steps I should take when I expressed my anxiety over Mong's slow speech development. But she NEVER fails to set my panic button.
Speaking of this, my congratulations to Germ. I doubt she will have the energy to read my blog for some time now that Baby Darius is born. Now you know *snicker*. Welcome aboard!
Thursday, December 07, 2006
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Murphy's Law
"Everything that can possibly go wrong will go wrong".
I have to conduct a presentation in 2 hours' time to about 35 people, some of whom I have not met before. When I woke up this morning, I thought of the above law when there it stood, bright and cheery (bah!), a big zit on my nose. Nothing from 1 Jan to 5 Dec...only today! When I have to meet a lot of people!
Then I thought of another (or extended?) version of Murphy's Law: "Anything that can go wrong, will, and at the worst possible moment". I will only know that in 2 hours' time. And so the praying begins...
Wish me luck!
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Time check: 1730 hours. I have definitely survived the day :)
I have to conduct a presentation in 2 hours' time to about 35 people, some of whom I have not met before. When I woke up this morning, I thought of the above law when there it stood, bright and cheery (bah!), a big zit on my nose. Nothing from 1 Jan to 5 Dec...only today! When I have to meet a lot of people!
Then I thought of another (or extended?) version of Murphy's Law: "Anything that can go wrong, will, and at the worst possible moment". I will only know that in 2 hours' time. And so the praying begins...
Wish me luck!
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Time check: 1730 hours. I have definitely survived the day :)
Tuesday, December 05, 2006
Movies (my kind)
Zihuatanejo. This is not a word you see on a regular basis. I kinda liked it when I saw it on TV. It is also uncanny that the 2 movies which I saw back-to-back the recent weekend were related to Mexico.
It was from The Shawshank Redemption. I watched it on the big screen about 16 years ago. With whom I can't remember...but I wonder if at 16 then, I could feel it as much as I did now. The narration was intelligent and moving.
The other Mexican movie was Y tu Mama Tambien (whatever the hell it means, however the hell you pronounce it). I borrowed from sis who, like me, seems to have a 'fetish' for anything non-Hollywood. The more indie the better. The more non-English the better. I appreciated its blatancy.
And the last watched and recommended one was Dorian Blues. Like any other gay movies which I've seen, I thoroughly liked.
So seriously, please don't talk to me about Korean dramas. I'm just not interested. Nothing wrong with them but just not interested. :D
It was from The Shawshank Redemption. I watched it on the big screen about 16 years ago. With whom I can't remember...but I wonder if at 16 then, I could feel it as much as I did now. The narration was intelligent and moving.
The other Mexican movie was Y tu Mama Tambien (whatever the hell it means, however the hell you pronounce it). I borrowed from sis who, like me, seems to have a 'fetish' for anything non-Hollywood. The more indie the better. The more non-English the better. I appreciated its blatancy.
And the last watched and recommended one was Dorian Blues. Like any other gay movies which I've seen, I thoroughly liked.
So seriously, please don't talk to me about Korean dramas. I'm just not interested. Nothing wrong with them but just not interested. :D
Wonder Woman
I'm really referring to myself (not very modest ain't I?).
I mean it. Considering that my nights had been lousy for 2 consecutive times, having woken up at 3am this morning and being in the office looking sane and awake is one mean feat (and did I forget to mention I conducted a 2-hour system training session to the department this morning?) Yes, Mong's turn to fall ill. He vomited all the milk and plain water we fed him 30 minutes before.
So what is parenthood? I believed I mentioned once it's not for the weak-hearted. It is also defined as the role filled with the most guilt traps. But it keeps you grounded. You are reminded how strong you can be, when challenged physically, mentally and emotionally.
Having 2 troops gives me the chance to witness empathy at a young age. Mong and his sis share this silly game which I call The Bonding Game. I noticed that whenever Becks cried or was in agony (eg. when she vomited), Mong would start the game, attempting to cheer up his jie jie. Damn sweet.
PS: OK, I'm cheered. Angie my colleague just called me to say "4pm". That's code word for our pantry session. Teh tarik time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
I mean it. Considering that my nights had been lousy for 2 consecutive times, having woken up at 3am this morning and being in the office looking sane and awake is one mean feat (and did I forget to mention I conducted a 2-hour system training session to the department this morning?) Yes, Mong's turn to fall ill. He vomited all the milk and plain water we fed him 30 minutes before.
So what is parenthood? I believed I mentioned once it's not for the weak-hearted. It is also defined as the role filled with the most guilt traps. But it keeps you grounded. You are reminded how strong you can be, when challenged physically, mentally and emotionally.
Having 2 troops gives me the chance to witness empathy at a young age. Mong and his sis share this silly game which I call The Bonding Game. I noticed that whenever Becks cried or was in agony (eg. when she vomited), Mong would start the game, attempting to cheer up his jie jie. Damn sweet.
PS: OK, I'm cheered. Angie my colleague just called me to say "4pm". That's code word for our pantry session. Teh tarik time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
Sunday, December 03, 2006
Down!
A Sunday that starts at 6am can't be wonderful....unless you are taking part in the StanChart marathon (then again, I believe that's considered LATE).
No, I was woken up by Becks who tossed and turned for an hour already. Then she vomited whatever she consumed, including plain water. It was a loooong loooong Sunday.
No, I was woken up by Becks who tossed and turned for an hour already. Then she vomited whatever she consumed, including plain water. It was a loooong loooong Sunday.
Saturday, December 02, 2006
4some
The regular Saturday lunch (again WHAT are you thinking?)....I'm gonna miss it!
Sis is getting posted to Ho Chi Minh end Jan 07. It appears she will have large shoes to fill, after some manager in his 40s will be demoted (by her no less!). She was getting restless in Singapore, with most of her closer friends being overseas. Also, the very single her just wants change. Lucky her, some people dun get their dreams come true in the same lifetime.
Sis is getting posted to Ho Chi Minh end Jan 07. It appears she will have large shoes to fill, after some manager in his 40s will be demoted (by her no less!). She was getting restless in Singapore, with most of her closer friends being overseas. Also, the very single her just wants change. Lucky her, some people dun get their dreams come true in the same lifetime.
Friday, December 01, 2006
About Taiwan...not really.
I lost my mood to blog about my (personal) trip to Taiwan. I was actually waiting for the pictures taken by my vendor to be sent to me but she's probably not gonna do it anytime soon....
What I really wanted to post was the dinner they took us - fine-dining. I wanted to show a picture of the steak I ordered. A steak as thick as a Harry Potter book. A steak which I struggled to finish. A steak I never saw so many tendons on. A steak so friggin expensive which I would regard as a sin just to order. Then there was soup, dessert, exotic tea and more exotic tea. By the time we were done, we were practically floored! But it was an unforgettable experience.
Taiwanese are polite. A lot of 'xie xies' in everything they do. They are also disciplined (queue to board trains, stand on the right on escalators (they stand on the right)) and mind their own business. I found myself staring/studying them a few times, perhaps out of habit. It set me thinking that people with physical and mental handicap really don't have it easy in Singapore. Maybe this is a bold statement but a look around many public places reveal that they are objects of ostracization. Luckily we are wising up, getting more sensitive towards their needs now. :)
Anyways...............SW makes great travelling company. Basically, we share the same objectives - not shopping, not eating a lot, just exploring. We really maxed out personal time, finishing the meeting by noon, taking the train to the city and then reaching hotel close to midnight, only to wake up at 7am the next morning for more walking.
Hence, as kinda promised yesterday, I complete my 'explanation' for soreness (my legs...again I say. What were you thinking?). Taiwan I like...without having to pay myself for the major expenses. I can say I'm pretty done with that country for now....unless the photos come my way soon. Now to push for a Europe business trip next year... :P
What I really wanted to post was the dinner they took us - fine-dining. I wanted to show a picture of the steak I ordered. A steak as thick as a Harry Potter book. A steak which I struggled to finish. A steak I never saw so many tendons on. A steak so friggin expensive which I would regard as a sin just to order. Then there was soup, dessert, exotic tea and more exotic tea. By the time we were done, we were practically floored! But it was an unforgettable experience.
Taiwanese are polite. A lot of 'xie xies' in everything they do. They are also disciplined (queue to board trains, stand on the right on escalators (they stand on the right)) and mind their own business. I found myself staring/studying them a few times, perhaps out of habit. It set me thinking that people with physical and mental handicap really don't have it easy in Singapore. Maybe this is a bold statement but a look around many public places reveal that they are objects of ostracization. Luckily we are wising up, getting more sensitive towards their needs now. :)
Anyways...............SW makes great travelling company. Basically, we share the same objectives - not shopping, not eating a lot, just exploring. We really maxed out personal time, finishing the meeting by noon, taking the train to the city and then reaching hotel close to midnight, only to wake up at 7am the next morning for more walking.
Hence, as kinda promised yesterday, I complete my 'explanation' for soreness (my legs...again I say. What were you thinking?). Taiwan I like...without having to pay myself for the major expenses. I can say I'm pretty done with that country for now....unless the photos come my way soon. Now to push for a Europe business trip next year... :P
Thursday, November 30, 2006
Jobs & Blog Patrol...*and I'm back*
3 days in Taiwan was a blast. Yes, it was a business trip but we don't forget that 'self' comes 1st under any circumstance, right?
Before I get there to explain how I ended up feeling so pooped and sore (my legs!) today, I would like to thank my friend, Keathan for alerting me about my blogsite (yes this one) appeared in The Straits Times on 28 Nov. His sms came in the middle of my wonderful breakfast at the hotel, something about doing 'damage control'. I was so freaked out.
But ah...I found out it's not the swearing that will land me in jail (or Xiaxue would have gotten there already and long time ago), not any insensitive remarks that will land me dissected by netizens, not any hideous pictures posted that will land me lose face....it was just a harmless and very honest personal comment I entered.
So...phew. My 15 nano-seconds of "fame". :P
And so it leads me to wonder the people behind the scenes - the ones on blog patrol. It must be a visually straining job to read through blogs after blogs, sussing out key words, key materials of the moment, sensitive and insensitive ones, etc. I think people going for movie and food reviews have it more interesting.
I visited the Zhongzhen Memorial Hall in Taiwan and there stood 2 guards, opposite each other, with a poker face to match. They don't flinch, they stare ahead and just blink their eyes - you get the picture. It's a feat to deal with the monotony! I hear that every hour they swop places (OK, there must be a more honourable way of terming this) but that should be about their only highlight of the day.
Then again, a job is a job. A toast to it for simply helping us pay our bills.
Before I get there to explain how I ended up feeling so pooped and sore (my legs!) today, I would like to thank my friend, Keathan for alerting me about my blogsite (yes this one) appeared in The Straits Times on 28 Nov. His sms came in the middle of my wonderful breakfast at the hotel, something about doing 'damage control'. I was so freaked out.
But ah...I found out it's not the swearing that will land me in jail (or Xiaxue would have gotten there already and long time ago), not any insensitive remarks that will land me dissected by netizens, not any hideous pictures posted that will land me lose face....it was just a harmless and very honest personal comment I entered.
So...phew. My 15 nano-seconds of "fame". :P
And so it leads me to wonder the people behind the scenes - the ones on blog patrol. It must be a visually straining job to read through blogs after blogs, sussing out key words, key materials of the moment, sensitive and insensitive ones, etc. I think people going for movie and food reviews have it more interesting.
I visited the Zhongzhen Memorial Hall in Taiwan and there stood 2 guards, opposite each other, with a poker face to match. They don't flinch, they stare ahead and just blink their eyes - you get the picture. It's a feat to deal with the monotony! I hear that every hour they swop places (OK, there must be a more honourable way of terming this) but that should be about their only highlight of the day.
Then again, a job is a job. A toast to it for simply helping us pay our bills.
Sunday, November 26, 2006
Friday, November 24, 2006
Eww...
There are things which make me go 'ewww'.
I'm not talking about the regular things like bloody wounds, squashed-up snails, etc.
I drink soya bean milk every morning; I'll buy a cup from this stall on my way to office. I'll usually heat it and let the wonderful warmth of the beverage flow down my throat. Today, not sure why....perhaps the temperate was really set too high but there is this thin crumply layer that lies on top of the drink. VERY disgusting to me.
For those who know me, they know I'm a little weird of sorts. I cringe when I see blood on chicken drumsticks (cannot eat anymore), I cringe when I see bubbles floating around my Milo/TT (must remove them first), I used to cringe when I see anything yellow and wobbly (think egg custard tart and egg yolk - could not eat at all), I instinctively gag (and can almost puke) when my tongue touches some food soft and which I'm not aware of existing (think fats in a kong bah...hence kong bah remains my worst nightmare as a food).
Luckily I'm a girl, not a guy who needs to be enlisted in the army (combat unit). I'd rather have periods. Thank you very much.
TGIF!
I'm not talking about the regular things like bloody wounds, squashed-up snails, etc.
I drink soya bean milk every morning; I'll buy a cup from this stall on my way to office. I'll usually heat it and let the wonderful warmth of the beverage flow down my throat. Today, not sure why....perhaps the temperate was really set too high but there is this thin crumply layer that lies on top of the drink. VERY disgusting to me.
For those who know me, they know I'm a little weird of sorts. I cringe when I see blood on chicken drumsticks (cannot eat anymore), I cringe when I see bubbles floating around my Milo/TT (must remove them first), I used to cringe when I see anything yellow and wobbly (think egg custard tart and egg yolk - could not eat at all), I instinctively gag (and can almost puke) when my tongue touches some food soft and which I'm not aware of existing (think fats in a kong bah...hence kong bah remains my worst nightmare as a food).
Luckily I'm a girl, not a guy who needs to be enlisted in the army (combat unit). I'd rather have periods. Thank you very much.
TGIF!
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Laughter, the Best Medicine
Nothing like humour to perk up your day.
Here I am in my seat, looking stoned from reading boring work emails when I decided to check out Kenny Sia. Kenny is one blogger whom I dunno personally but whose blog I enjoy reading. I read my friends' to keep myself updated on their lives, to be familiar with what they feel and think, to spot their grammar and vocabulary mistakes (haha! KIDDING), etc. I dun read strangers'. I mean they can be self-indulgent (they'll use the same defence line - "hey, it's my blog. I can post whatever I like and keep going on about me, myself and I.........") but irritatingly self-indulgent. If not, the more serious ones will be ranting about the GST increase. I mean, forget it lah. It's gonna happen. That bowl of bar chor mee is going to cost from $3 to $3.50 soon. Nothing we say, do, rant, complain, blog, sing, rap will change this impending doom.
I dunno what this entry is for anyways. Maybe it's just a message to remind all that laughter is indeed the best medicine. Heck the laughing lines...dun forget to stop and smell the roses.
A Bond
I'm upset when we have disagreements.
I cried when I knew what you are going through.
I'm definitely bringing the secret to my grave.
Dear friend, we are tighter than I thought.
I'll be there for you.
I cried when I knew what you are going through.
I'm definitely bringing the secret to my grave.
Dear friend, we are tighter than I thought.
I'll be there for you.
Wednesday, November 22, 2006
Lip Service?
I risk posting this because she knows my blogsite. But because of her insanely busy life and that she's overseas (she's practically selling her soul to the company!), whatever little time she has left, she will devote it to her other half, eating, sleeping, pee-ing and shitting.
But if she really does read my blog and chance upon this, she may confront me.
I finally saw her online yesterday...very excited since it's been months we chatted.
(1) AL: Hey..........just the other day, I've been thinking about how long we haven't chatted.
*THEN WHY DON'T YOU EMAIL INSTEAD? YOU NEED MSN TO MAINTAIN A FRIENDSHIP OR JUSTIFY YOUR EXISTENCE WITH ANOTHER FRIEND?????*
Miffy: Oh, yea, I definitely have been...in fact, I sent you a birthday greeting but no reply.
(2) AL: You didn't get my reply? I thought I sent you...
*WELL YOU THOUGHT WRONG.*
Miffy: No, I didn't receive any. No matter.
(3) Miffy: Let me know when you gals come to Singapore....it'll be fun.
AL: Dun be pissed when you hear this............
Miffy: What? You will never come to Singapore again?
AL: We've just gone...2 weeks ago. I tried to call you at your cell but it didn't reach you.
Please dun get mad.
Miffy: Till another time I guess.
* YAH RIGHT. MY CELL DIDN'T REGISTER ANY MISSED CALLS. NEITHER DID IT HAVE ANY PRIVATE NUMBERS COMING IN IN THE LAST 2 WEEKS. AND EVEN WHEN IT DID DROP INTO THE TOILET BOWL, I HAD A REPLACEMENT IMMEDIATELY (readers, dun look for loopholes, OK?)*
Why do this? I mean, say things which I want to hear (read)? I dun buy it anymore. I'm fuckin 32, not 18. I just need some honesty and sincerity. I like AL but I hate to think she's falling into the category of the above.........sigh.
But if she really does read my blog and chance upon this, she may confront me.
I finally saw her online yesterday...very excited since it's been months we chatted.
(1) AL: Hey..........just the other day, I've been thinking about how long we haven't chatted.
*THEN WHY DON'T YOU EMAIL INSTEAD? YOU NEED MSN TO MAINTAIN A FRIENDSHIP OR JUSTIFY YOUR EXISTENCE WITH ANOTHER FRIEND?????*
Miffy: Oh, yea, I definitely have been...in fact, I sent you a birthday greeting but no reply.
(2) AL: You didn't get my reply? I thought I sent you...
*WELL YOU THOUGHT WRONG.*
Miffy: No, I didn't receive any. No matter.
(3) Miffy: Let me know when you gals come to Singapore....it'll be fun.
AL: Dun be pissed when you hear this............
Miffy: What? You will never come to Singapore again?
AL: We've just gone...2 weeks ago. I tried to call you at your cell but it didn't reach you.
Please dun get mad.
Miffy: Till another time I guess.
* YAH RIGHT. MY CELL DIDN'T REGISTER ANY MISSED CALLS. NEITHER DID IT HAVE ANY PRIVATE NUMBERS COMING IN IN THE LAST 2 WEEKS. AND EVEN WHEN IT DID DROP INTO THE TOILET BOWL, I HAD A REPLACEMENT IMMEDIATELY (readers, dun look for loopholes, OK?)*
Why do this? I mean, say things which I want to hear (read)? I dun buy it anymore. I'm fuckin 32, not 18. I just need some honesty and sincerity. I like AL but I hate to think she's falling into the category of the above.........sigh.
Beauty with no Beast
We all know the classical Disney story of Beauty and The Beast which was also made into a movie many years ago. I wonder how it originated - art imitating life or life imitating art? Today we think Beyonce & Jay-Z and Julia Roberts & Lyle Lovett (thankfully this is past).
What I want to share is this morning, I saw a couple - 2 beauties, side by side with no beast in sight. 2 beauties sleek as hell, purring softly as the traffic light stood red.
2 dark maroon Peugeot Coupe 406.
:D~~~~~~~~~~~~
What I want to share is this morning, I saw a couple - 2 beauties, side by side with no beast in sight. 2 beauties sleek as hell, purring softly as the traffic light stood red.
2 dark maroon Peugeot Coupe 406.
:D~~~~~~~~~~~~
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Un-organic...YUM!
Why go organic when there's still ham chin peng (with red bean paste) on the surface of this earth?And that was what I ate right after lunch...after many moons. I can't remember it can delight my palate so much. Thinking about sweet foods, I'm reminded that it's been very long since I last ate cold tau huay. It was usually enjoyed with :B when she was working just a stone's throw away.
Passion in food can only be ignited with the right company. Guess I can only find it during weekends now...with M. :)
Monday, November 20, 2006
VivoCity
We finally checked out VivoCity. Considering it was quite early and its massive space, we didn't develop any claustrophobia. The biggest mistake though, was having the play area built smack in the middle where the hot scorching sun would shine. HDB estates do it so well - playgrounds are sheltered at the peak of noon, hence children (and teachers) from childcare centres get to enjoy them.
DUH.
And I am in love....with Natalie Portman. For those seeking subtle humour, friendship ties and romance, please watch Garden State. Finally I rented one right movie in weeks. :)
DUH.
And I am in love....with Natalie Portman. For those seeking subtle humour, friendship ties and romance, please watch Garden State. Finally I rented one right movie in weeks. :)
Friday, November 17, 2006
Lunch with "Nanny"
Remarkably impromptu. Remarkably nice. Remarkably we-must-do-it-again-soon.
PS: I'll see you, David Lee Choon Hoe in my next life...
PPS: I wanted to say more nasty things about this David (cos mainly he doesn't know my blog. Haha) but I shall stop in case you readers think I'm so warped and critical these days. Yes, PMS!!! :D
PS: I'll see you, David Lee Choon Hoe in my next life...
PPS: I wanted to say more nasty things about this David (cos mainly he doesn't know my blog. Haha) but I shall stop in case you readers think I'm so warped and critical these days. Yes, PMS!!! :D
The Cold War
I really mean The "Cold War"....and not the Soviet-American struggle that emerged after WWII.
I hate to think of myself as one of those many petty women but well, it is still ongoing. I didn't blog that it started, when it started, how it started...with my Corporate Planning-cum-HR Manager, infamously known for her nickname - CF (Cauliflower (hairstyle)...or maybe it's just a bunch of pubes up there) - and her hunger for power.
Because she interfered excessively in my Division's recruitment (I heard she is doing the same in others) and in the event passed a harsh, totally IRrelevant and personal criticism, I had let her know it wasn't tolerated. And so we stopped talking, stopped being the pals we were before, going for lunches, going home together, exchanging friendly teases.
I guess she reigns in areas (simply put, cock-sucking) where most of us can't and won't. The 'power' that she's been entrusted has gone to her head....and so it swells to a proportion that I (and the rest of us) can no longer find socially and professionally acceptable.
And so it rages on.....
PS: I was kidding about the "Make love, not war" entry a few days ago. Pui....
I hate to think of myself as one of those many petty women but well, it is still ongoing. I didn't blog that it started, when it started, how it started...with my Corporate Planning-cum-HR Manager, infamously known for her nickname - CF (Cauliflower (hairstyle)...or maybe it's just a bunch of pubes up there) - and her hunger for power.
Because she interfered excessively in my Division's recruitment (I heard she is doing the same in others) and in the event passed a harsh, totally IRrelevant and personal criticism, I had let her know it wasn't tolerated. And so we stopped talking, stopped being the pals we were before, going for lunches, going home together, exchanging friendly teases.
I guess she reigns in areas (simply put, cock-sucking) where most of us can't and won't. The 'power' that she's been entrusted has gone to her head....and so it swells to a proportion that I (and the rest of us) can no longer find socially and professionally acceptable.
And so it rages on.....
PS: I was kidding about the "Make love, not war" entry a few days ago. Pui....
End of one milestone...
Today marks the last day of school for Becks. It is another strange feeling again....When school reopens next year, she is going to be in Kindergarten. I cannot believe how time flies, how quickly she is growing (yea yea, and how quickly we are ageing...).
Thursday, November 16, 2006
Travelling (part 2)
Speaking of travelling, I know I mentioned about letting the photos speak for themselves when I visited our neighbour last week. There were a lot more. I particularly like one where all 4 of us squeezed ourselves to death while Michelin's cam was on auto mode but alas, that one wasn't up yet. Anyways, I love these too, for different reasons.
Top: Unbelievable Photo1 (me in k'ok?!), Unbelievable Photo2 (:B served us rice!)
Bottom: The Dearies, Us 3
Travelling
The Brazil trip is finally confirmed, with 2 people in my Division going.
It's going to be one loooooong trip given the travelling and transit time (10-21 Dec). And due to being such good sports *duh*, they will be having time off at Amsterdam on the pretext of viewing our Europe Distribution Centre (this would probably take only about an hour...hence, it's all BS but why not).
Yes, I have consciously given up the chance. And just like how my friends had prepared me for any regrettable feeling for not attending my own convocation many moons ago, again, I'm sure I'll have none this time. :)
It's going to be one loooooong trip given the travelling and transit time (10-21 Dec). And due to being such good sports *duh*, they will be having time off at Amsterdam on the pretext of viewing our Europe Distribution Centre (this would probably take only about an hour...hence, it's all BS but why not).
Yes, I have consciously given up the chance. And just like how my friends had prepared me for any regrettable feeling for not attending my own convocation many moons ago, again, I'm sure I'll have none this time. :)
SGH...again
I just made another appointment at SGH next week. I dun care how it's gonna be done, whether the pain would be worse than before. JUST GET IT OUT FROM ME.
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Smelly~~~
NEVER EVER consume onion for lunch. I mean not as the main meal lah. The bloody thing wasn't visible in the food I ordered....but when I discovered it, it was too late. Now no Mentos mint can save me. Not even the super strong one.
Lunch was with YC. It's been a year since we met. I knew her 8 years ago. She was a bar hostess before and was with a divorcee (or was he married?) even before she turned 21. Today, she's doing well in her job but still trying to shake off her ex-husband who refuses to stop stalking her. Few years ago when he was still in Singapore, he was given a restraining order and was even detained for domestic violence. He jumped bail, left the country and hasn't been back since. But he has not stopped hounding her at her cell, home and worse of all, office number. Hence, most reluctantly she's on an active search for 'the next ideal' job so that once she leaves, she can change all her other contact numbers.
Lunch was with YC. It's been a year since we met. I knew her 8 years ago. She was a bar hostess before and was with a divorcee (or was he married?) even before she turned 21. Today, she's doing well in her job but still trying to shake off her ex-husband who refuses to stop stalking her. Few years ago when he was still in Singapore, he was given a restraining order and was even detained for domestic violence. He jumped bail, left the country and hasn't been back since. But he has not stopped hounding her at her cell, home and worse of all, office number. Hence, most reluctantly she's on an active search for 'the next ideal' job so that once she leaves, she can change all her other contact numbers.
I am just thankful I dun have detestable people in my life whom I'm desperate to shake off....for now. :P
Make love, not war.
Strangeness
It is a strange feeling. For lack of vocabularly, I would say it's like missing something.
The last time I experienced such strangeness was 4 years ago. When I just gave birth to Becks. An addition in my life. Talking about her was surreal.
Like any other thing, I hope I get used to this soon...
The last time I experienced such strangeness was 4 years ago. When I just gave birth to Becks. An addition in my life. Talking about her was surreal.
Like any other thing, I hope I get used to this soon...
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
:(
There's just supposed to be one big news...about :B's departure tonight. She leaves for Japan to work for 3 years.
But before I get there, I got another one this morning.
GST hike: 5% to 7%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Perhaps just like the last time, consumers will scramble to buy things before the hike. I'm trying to think of a list for myself, for the kids, for the house, for anything and anyone around me. I have been looking at the dreary curtains in the rooms. They do a pretty good job blocking out the sunlight...but the blue. A sad sad blue.
Anyways! Yes, today marks :B's departure. Michelin and I would not be sending her off, hence we popped a surprise visit at her place last night. Not forgetting the farewell gift, not forgetting the TT which I tabao-ed.
We spent time going on a 'house tour', looking through her childhood photos (I was expecting her to look fat and pimply...but alas, it was all anti-climatic. You really didn't look too bad, :B!) and laughing at the usual silly jokes.
I have had many friends who's left Singapore to work but I think this time it's pretty different in that the friendship is still 'at a high' when this friend of mine leaves. It's strange how things do seem sweeter.
I know I ain't the sort who would chat at home regularly, get a webcam (just tell me if you have grown fat, changed your hairstyle, pierced your nipple, grown a mole, more pimples, etc) but I can be damn darn sure that we will not be out of touch.
Heard of the ole (tacky) saying during primary school days? Friendships Remain And Never Can End.
But before I get there, I got another one this morning.
GST hike: 5% to 7%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Perhaps just like the last time, consumers will scramble to buy things before the hike. I'm trying to think of a list for myself, for the kids, for the house, for anything and anyone around me. I have been looking at the dreary curtains in the rooms. They do a pretty good job blocking out the sunlight...but the blue. A sad sad blue.
Anyways! Yes, today marks :B's departure. Michelin and I would not be sending her off, hence we popped a surprise visit at her place last night. Not forgetting the farewell gift, not forgetting the TT which I tabao-ed.
We spent time going on a 'house tour', looking through her childhood photos (I was expecting her to look fat and pimply...but alas, it was all anti-climatic. You really didn't look too bad, :B!) and laughing at the usual silly jokes.
I have had many friends who's left Singapore to work but I think this time it's pretty different in that the friendship is still 'at a high' when this friend of mine leaves. It's strange how things do seem sweeter.
I know I ain't the sort who would chat at home regularly, get a webcam (just tell me if you have grown fat, changed your hairstyle, pierced your nipple, grown a mole, more pimples, etc) but I can be damn darn sure that we will not be out of touch.
Heard of the ole (tacky) saying during primary school days? Friendships Remain And Never Can End.
ALL THE BEST buddy!!!!
Monday, November 13, 2006
Beach
Sunday
M and I just wanted to be good parents, fulfilling a little girl's wish to go to the beach. When we set off at 10ish, it never occurred to us how ill-prepared we were.
I am being kind. I meant how lunatic we were.
With no cap/hat, no sun glasses and no sunscreen, we were out in the middle of the beach, feeling the sand and waves with our feet. Becks seemed to be enjoying herself scooping sand, pouring more water, scooping more sand and making shapes with the toys. Then the heat became really unbearable...and I looked around and saw NOBODY doing the same as what we did.
Well, it was an effort. We believe Changi Beach would be better. I remembered more matured trees with wider canopies = more shade. Till next week... :D
M and I just wanted to be good parents, fulfilling a little girl's wish to go to the beach. When we set off at 10ish, it never occurred to us how ill-prepared we were.
I am being kind. I meant how lunatic we were.
With no cap/hat, no sun glasses and no sunscreen, we were out in the middle of the beach, feeling the sand and waves with our feet. Becks seemed to be enjoying herself scooping sand, pouring more water, scooping more sand and making shapes with the toys. Then the heat became really unbearable...and I looked around and saw NOBODY doing the same as what we did.
Well, it was an effort. We believe Changi Beach would be better. I remembered more matured trees with wider canopies = more shade. Till next week... :D
R.I.P.
*plop...!*
There goes my handphone, into the toilet bowl.
I was cutting my nails over the sink on Friday night, believing that Mong would be completely occupied with the videos on my handphone. No. He had to walk right into the toilet, stand next to me and conduct his Science experiment on density.
I scooped up the handphone *thank God no poo nor pee then* and tried ways to salvage it.
I believe it is officially dead...
There goes my handphone, into the toilet bowl.
I was cutting my nails over the sink on Friday night, believing that Mong would be completely occupied with the videos on my handphone. No. He had to walk right into the toilet, stand next to me and conduct his Science experiment on density.
I scooped up the handphone *thank God no poo nor pee then* and tried ways to salvage it.
I believe it is officially dead...
Friday, November 10, 2006
Lizards
My biggest personal fear factor.
I heard on the radio the other day that lizards have personalities. I was totally amused. Some have mood swings, some are sociable, some are scheming....what?
Miffy sees lizard on the wall of living room.
Miffy (at a distance): Hello, I see you around often.
Lizard: Beat it. No mood to talk.
Miffy: *ok, unfriendly one*
I heard on the radio the other day that lizards have personalities. I was totally amused. Some have mood swings, some are sociable, some are scheming....what?
Miffy sees lizard on the wall of living room.
Miffy (at a distance): Hello, I see you around often.
Lizard: Beat it. No mood to talk.
Miffy: *ok, unfriendly one*
Sleep
I just dun get it. Sleep...sometimes it comes easily, sometimes not. Ceteris paribus. Why???
People would generally advise: "Dun think so much lah. Just close your eyes, relax, count ....."
Thing is, I can't sleep and hence I think! Not the other way round! And so last night, sleep eluded me after 4am. I was wide-eyed, thinking about what to do in the next few hours. Where my mom will be bringing the troops today (since Becks has no school), what time I am meeting :B for TT, which I should watch first - Sex, Lies and Videotape or The Hills Have Eyes (thanks to :B) this weekend, time to call up the aircon place to service the aircon (when?), when I'm sinking my teeth into a juicy steak, etc. You get the picture. An assortment of things. Chaos.
And so, after 2 hours later, I slept again....an hour before the alarm rang. I dun feel so bad now...maybe not yet. And luckily I brought my spectacles. No more blurry images today! :)
TGIF!
PS: M is taking part in The Bull Run this evening. Heh. Ganbate!
People would generally advise: "Dun think so much lah. Just close your eyes, relax, count ....."
Thing is, I can't sleep and hence I think! Not the other way round! And so last night, sleep eluded me after 4am. I was wide-eyed, thinking about what to do in the next few hours. Where my mom will be bringing the troops today (since Becks has no school), what time I am meeting :B for TT, which I should watch first - Sex, Lies and Videotape or The Hills Have Eyes (thanks to :B) this weekend, time to call up the aircon place to service the aircon (when?), when I'm sinking my teeth into a juicy steak, etc. You get the picture. An assortment of things. Chaos.
And so, after 2 hours later, I slept again....an hour before the alarm rang. I dun feel so bad now...maybe not yet. And luckily I brought my spectacles. No more blurry images today! :)
TGIF!
PS: M is taking part in The Bull Run this evening. Heh. Ganbate!
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Help...
I am giddy, I am nauseous, I am tired and I am tearing....
No, I am not pregnant! I forgot to bring my spectacles today. With 3 pairs at home, I brought none of them out when I left for work this morning. None. So much for lack of "optimum management"...
No, I am not pregnant! I forgot to bring my spectacles today. With 3 pairs at home, I brought none of them out when I left for work this morning. None. So much for lack of "optimum management"...
Pissy Pissed
Rude people vs Hypocrites: Which do I detest more?
At least hypocrites don't give it to you in your face...your anger may not be fuelled.
*actually can I not choose? I hate them fucking both*
OK, I'm done with the venting. Any good news to blog about, you ask early in the morning? Well..................................................
1. MM Lee made it to the Top 60 Asian Heroes' List (I believe it's TIMES)
2. Singapore is reviewing the penal code after more than 20 years. They are going to de-criminalize anal sex between 2 consenting hetereosexual adults *wink*
3. I haven't chewed on my nails for the past 2 days (I think I've discovered the trick).
4. Boss is still out of office, making today my 2nd official day of zen.
At least hypocrites don't give it to you in your face...your anger may not be fuelled.
*actually can I not choose? I hate them fucking both*
OK, I'm done with the venting. Any good news to blog about, you ask early in the morning? Well..................................................
1. MM Lee made it to the Top 60 Asian Heroes' List (I believe it's TIMES)
2. Singapore is reviewing the penal code after more than 20 years. They are going to de-criminalize anal sex between 2 consenting hetereosexual adults *wink*
3. I haven't chewed on my nails for the past 2 days (I think I've discovered the trick).
4. Boss is still out of office, making today my 2nd official day of zen.
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
"Mission" Accomplished!
We finally did it. We took a bus into JB.
It may seem lame and a daily affair to some but trust me, to arrive at this date for all 4 of us to get to the point (actually especially the 3 of us) wasn't easy. In between, many unexpected events had arisen which I must admit dampened my enthusiam and faith in materializing the idea.
I would just like to say it was time well-spent with close friends. I love JB's KFC chicken (no blood!), I love the space without the crowd (think VivoCity...what a putoff), I love the wide variety of DVDs *oops* (I actually found Jackie Brown after 9 years!), I love the comfort of the karaoke room which didn't smell like a chimney and had seemingly new leather seats (and it's confirmed I am not tone-deaf).
And so, I shall let the photos speak for themselves (soon...).
It may seem lame and a daily affair to some but trust me, to arrive at this date for all 4 of us to get to the point (actually especially the 3 of us) wasn't easy. In between, many unexpected events had arisen which I must admit dampened my enthusiam and faith in materializing the idea.
I would just like to say it was time well-spent with close friends. I love JB's KFC chicken (no blood!), I love the space without the crowd (think VivoCity...what a putoff), I love the wide variety of DVDs *oops* (I actually found Jackie Brown after 9 years!), I love the comfort of the karaoke room which didn't smell like a chimney and had seemingly new leather seats (and it's confirmed I am not tone-deaf).
And so, I shall let the photos speak for themselves (soon...).
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Conversation of the Month
Miffy: Mummy loves you.
Becks: I love you too.
Miffy: Thank you for sharing this with me.
Becks: So now we can get married?
Miffy: *????!!!!!!!!!!*
Becks: I love you too.
Miffy: Thank you for sharing this with me.
Becks: So now we can get married?
Miffy: *????!!!!!!!!!!*
Monday, November 06, 2006
Bus Rides
My advice is - if you have a car, dun forget to learn how to take the bus. Or rather, dun forget how joyful a bus ride can be.
I know some of you may think I'm crazy or if I'm paid by the government to go 'green' in my blog. I jump to my own defence - I mean this applies to buses which travel along the expressway, hence have few stops yet long enough to enjoy the ride, preferably with close friends and family.
One of such buses is 161. I take it from the bus stop right across my block and it goes via TPE/SLE to Woodlands' Causeway Point. Seated at the upper deck, it gave the troops a very good view of a river, thick undergrowth and different kinds of building.
It helps that I love the library there too, with a much greater variety of Adult and Children's books and a huge area for them to roam. We will definitely do it again. :)
I know some of you may think I'm crazy or if I'm paid by the government to go 'green' in my blog. I jump to my own defence - I mean this applies to buses which travel along the expressway, hence have few stops yet long enough to enjoy the ride, preferably with close friends and family.
One of such buses is 161. I take it from the bus stop right across my block and it goes via TPE/SLE to Woodlands' Causeway Point. Seated at the upper deck, it gave the troops a very good view of a river, thick undergrowth and different kinds of building.
It helps that I love the library there too, with a much greater variety of Adult and Children's books and a huge area for them to roam. We will definitely do it again. :)
Sunday, November 05, 2006
"Independence Day"
Remember, remember, the 5th of November
The Gunpowder Treason and plot;
I know of no reason why Gunpowder Treason
Should ever be forgot.
Thanks to JC for the history lesson. When I watched V for Vendetta, I did not realise it was based on Guy Fawkes, brilliantly played by Hugo Weaving. It isn't my usual kind of entertainment but it's still recommended. Very cleverly written by the brothers who created The Matrix cult.
Talking about movies, this weekend fell rather flat. I was watching all the movies which I went x2/x4/x8 (fast forward at different pace) and hence, probably killed the essence. No offence :B. Maybe I wasn't in the mood. Or maybe it's really not easy getting the kinda movie I fancy. I couldn't imagine watching Audition at the original pace the movie was shot. GOSH! I had been so patient and forgiving?????
It was a 'feat' though, to have had this much personal space to watch the movies. 'Cos Sunday marked the 1st day of my maid's day off after being with us for 7 month. It has also been a long time for us considering my previous one was not granted one for a whole 2 years. So in a more significant manner, it marked the 1st day of our independence, of my independence.
It ended up with M cooking for Becks' lunch *haha!* and me feeding Mong - I dunno which is more difficult for me. Anyways, it went well and we managed to squeeze in time to bring the troops to the pool.
The Gunpowder Treason and plot;
I know of no reason why Gunpowder Treason
Should ever be forgot.
Thanks to JC for the history lesson. When I watched V for Vendetta, I did not realise it was based on Guy Fawkes, brilliantly played by Hugo Weaving. It isn't my usual kind of entertainment but it's still recommended. Very cleverly written by the brothers who created The Matrix cult.
Talking about movies, this weekend fell rather flat. I was watching all the movies which I went x2/x4/x8 (fast forward at different pace) and hence, probably killed the essence. No offence :B. Maybe I wasn't in the mood. Or maybe it's really not easy getting the kinda movie I fancy. I couldn't imagine watching Audition at the original pace the movie was shot. GOSH! I had been so patient and forgiving?????
It was a 'feat' though, to have had this much personal space to watch the movies. 'Cos Sunday marked the 1st day of my maid's day off after being with us for 7 month. It has also been a long time for us considering my previous one was not granted one for a whole 2 years. So in a more significant manner, it marked the 1st day of our independence, of my independence.
It ended up with M cooking for Becks' lunch *haha!* and me feeding Mong - I dunno which is more difficult for me. Anyways, it went well and we managed to squeeze in time to bring the troops to the pool.
Friday, November 03, 2006
TGIF
'Twas a nice nice lunch with :B and her boyfriend (who is also my colleague). Good ole oily prawn mee and consistently-milky-and-hence-tasty-TT.
Thanks :B, for lending me Audition. I can't remember the details of the show, just that it was soooo sick. I think I can have a mini-film fest at home this weekend.
Also, the suaku me is feeling excited about the JB trip already. Not having been there for almost 5 years, my adrenalin rushes just the thought of spending time at a different place with good friends, spending some Ringgit (i.e. half price for the same product..or manicure?!), eating some chilli frogs (if we can find the place!), going for karaoke (if we can book the slot + please do not FORCE me to sing more than 1 Chinese song!), etc.
I am attending Becks' first-ever formal school graduation concert this evening. The letter states we have to put make-up on her. Er, her mummy doesn't even have a complete make-up set...maybe her Popo can lend hers. :P
TGIF it is!
Thanks :B, for lending me Audition. I can't remember the details of the show, just that it was soooo sick. I think I can have a mini-film fest at home this weekend.
Also, the suaku me is feeling excited about the JB trip already. Not having been there for almost 5 years, my adrenalin rushes just the thought of spending time at a different place with good friends, spending some Ringgit (i.e. half price for the same product..or manicure?!), eating some chilli frogs (if we can find the place!), going for karaoke (if we can book the slot + please do not FORCE me to sing more than 1 Chinese song!), etc.
I am attending Becks' first-ever formal school graduation concert this evening. The letter states we have to put make-up on her. Er, her mummy doesn't even have a complete make-up set...maybe her Popo can lend hers. :P
TGIF it is!
Thursday, November 02, 2006
Moving on...
Not that I wasn't. I am living life the only way I know how.
While I was at SGH staring at the number counter, waiting for my queue number to appear, it felt like I was waiting for my life sentence. Surprisingly, my heart did not pump extra hard. I wonder whether Took Leng How feels the same - nothing.
Anyways, with the results out already, I can finally say - yay, I'm at peace once again ... for now... :) I look forward to the JB trip with :B and Say next Tuesday.
While I was at SGH staring at the number counter, waiting for my queue number to appear, it felt like I was waiting for my life sentence. Surprisingly, my heart did not pump extra hard. I wonder whether Took Leng How feels the same - nothing.
Anyways, with the results out already, I can finally say - yay, I'm at peace once again ... for now... :) I look forward to the JB trip with :B and Say next Tuesday.
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
What is my next therapy?
This has been my heaven for more than 5 years. Then one day, in a very cruel manner, ALL supermarkets in Singapore suddenly stopped selling it. No notice. No apology.Henceforth, I ask: WHAT is my next therapy? For those who know me well, I deviate from the norm - I do not believe in retail therapy. Nothing which requires me to move my ass (once again).
Monday, October 30, 2006
Staff Movement
Gosh, it's gonna be major next year. I'm having a headache cos of this.
Anyway I read in URBAN last week that one sure way to stop nail-biting is to go for regular manicures. Sure it's gonna cost but it will be effective. Now the next big step is HOW to convince myself to move my fat ass to do it...no, THEM!
FRIENDS
Perhaps I'm exaggerating...but Say is like God-send. Heh. He made me realise what we really should focus on when the unexpected arises.
He also said something which I knew all along but kept buried deep inside me - that only through incidents do we realise who the real friends are.
Thank you all.
Anyway I read in URBAN last week that one sure way to stop nail-biting is to go for regular manicures. Sure it's gonna cost but it will be effective. Now the next big step is HOW to convince myself to move my fat ass to do it...no, THEM!
FRIENDS
Perhaps I'm exaggerating...but Say is like God-send. Heh. He made me realise what we really should focus on when the unexpected arises.
He also said something which I knew all along but kept buried deep inside me - that only through incidents do we realise who the real friends are.
Thank you all.
Wedding@SAM
29 Oct
It was the first wedding ceremony I attended at SAM. I'm glad we made it - all of us, The Tans. :)
Ivan did his usual PR thing..but he was lookin smart. I saw sis' pretty friend there, a few familiar faces (same college) and Vikki. Nice to see her again after more than 2 years.
And as expected, my face broke out in small zits. Time to change make-up.
It was the first wedding ceremony I attended at SAM. I'm glad we made it - all of us, The Tans. :)
Ivan did his usual PR thing..but he was lookin smart. I saw sis' pretty friend there, a few familiar faces (same college) and Vikki. Nice to see her again after more than 2 years.
And as expected, my face broke out in small zits. Time to change make-up.
Saturday, October 28, 2006
Done with...for now
It was not easy, just seconds before the procedure. The what-sounded-like-drilling, the loooong and sharp needle, being helpless, feeling helpless....
It's over for now. The waiting game begins till 2 Nov. And again I say, let's hope I can move on with a definite direction then.
Early morning, 1 sms from :B and few minutes later (literally!), we met downstairs my block, heading for breakfast. And it was a nice teh-si prepared by same ole Uncle. :)
It's over for now. The waiting game begins till 2 Nov. And again I say, let's hope I can move on with a definite direction then.
Early morning, 1 sms from :B and few minutes later (literally!), we met downstairs my block, heading for breakfast. And it was a nice teh-si prepared by same ole Uncle. :)
Thursday, October 26, 2006
Problems
We all have them...
But do our problems always seem bigger than the ones others have? Or are there really some things in life we can't really sweat over. As Say has said it - let's not be myopic.
We pray for good health...and sufficient insurance cover.
I see you for lunch tomorrow, matey!
But do our problems always seem bigger than the ones others have? Or are there really some things in life we can't really sweat over. As Say has said it - let's not be myopic.
We pray for good health...and sufficient insurance cover.
I see you for lunch tomorrow, matey!
Long-time/lost Friend
Hey, I'm glad we finally met. After 7 long years. And the encounter 7 years ago wasn't even a gathering. We just bumped into each other at the bus-stop, didn't we?
I hope we dun wait for another 7 more years to have another meal.
I hope we dun wait for another 7 more years to have another meal.
Wednesday, October 25, 2006
Blood-Shot!
Of all things, Mong must never follow my sleeping pattern! He kept me up for 2-3 hours on Sunday and last night. I've woken up with blood-shot eyes, dragging myself to work.
I dunno why he's such. Another area for this worry-wart me to be concerned again.... :(
I watched The Departed yesterday. I found myself consciously and continuously trying to remember who was playing which role equivalent to the HK version of Infernal Affairs 4 years ago. I loved that version....but slowly as the movie progressed, the Hollywood one grew on me. Jack Nicholson did really well. Can you imagine that guy is an old foggie (but not acting like one), all of 69 years old??!!! Most of us would probably be struggling with our physical and mental health while he can still carry a screen presence and remember acting lines. Kudos to the old man.
I dunno why he's such. Another area for this worry-wart me to be concerned again.... :(
I watched The Departed yesterday. I found myself consciously and continuously trying to remember who was playing which role equivalent to the HK version of Infernal Affairs 4 years ago. I loved that version....but slowly as the movie progressed, the Hollywood one grew on me. Jack Nicholson did really well. Can you imagine that guy is an old foggie (but not acting like one), all of 69 years old??!!! Most of us would probably be struggling with our physical and mental health while he can still carry a screen presence and remember acting lines. Kudos to the old man.
Monday, October 23, 2006
Life goes on...
The consultation on 18th didn't give me the direction I had hoped for. Instead, it threw me completely off-guard. It's true again - EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED.
So this Friday, I'm off for a day surgery.
Friends asked if I am afraid. I tell them as long as it can potentially save my life, expenses covered 100% by company's insurance (haha) and pain not as intense as that of labour, no, I am NOT afraid. And whatever the result is, it's destined.
And so life went on. I had a wild time with the troops at the pool again. I managed to watch 2 DVDs during the weekend and managed to survive the short (and very tiring) business trip in Vietnam.
Let me talk about Vietnam. To sum it up, it is Singapore in its 60s-70s. I LOVE the place. I didn't have the chance to walk on the streets because of our tight schedule but I did a lot of sight-seeing from the car. My only regret was not to have taken a picture of a petrol kiosk because that was a really classic setting.
Food was good of course. We were brought to this super brightly-lit Vietnamnese restaurant where we had lobster sashimi among their cuisine. This chap, reminding me of an eunuch (now how does a castrated man look like??) and bearing a most sadistic expression, pierced a sharp and long needle right in the middle of the lobster from bottom up. They served us its 'juice', its raw meat and finally also a sweet-tasting porridge with its cooked meat.
Vietnamnese also seems to like playing Emil Chau's songs cos I heard his songs re-done 3 times on the same day. Who cares about Emil Chau anymore when we have Jay Chou right? Well, the Vietnamnese.
I would like to visit the country again...(business of course, not pleasure. :P)
Saturday, October 21, 2006
Rainforest
That's where we went in the morning. To a section of the zoo we've never been before despite several trips.
And I must say I enjoyed it tremendously...giving Becks an education about vertebrates and invertebrates (though Uncle Say would be a better teacher at this. Ha). We saw many many cockroaches. Those damned things which M said Fear Factor participants needed to crunch and munch. All for US$50K. I shudder!
Oh! And up an excitement notch - there was celebrity sighting. Heh. Jacelyn Tay with an unidentifiable guy friend. She was casual, very lanky and very fair. Can give Snow White a run for her money (woohoo!). Rather nice-looking.
And I must say I enjoyed it tremendously...giving Becks an education about vertebrates and invertebrates (though Uncle Say would be a better teacher at this. Ha). We saw many many cockroaches. Those damned things which M said Fear Factor participants needed to crunch and munch. All for US$50K. I shudder!
Oh! And up an excitement notch - there was celebrity sighting. Heh. Jacelyn Tay with an unidentifiable guy friend. She was casual, very lanky and very fair. Can give Snow White a run for her money (woohoo!). Rather nice-looking.
Wednesday, October 18, 2006
Away...
Hanoi, Vietnam...here I come. 19 & 20 Oct: OoO and OoB.
OoO: Out of Office
OoB: Out of Blogger
OoO: Out of Office
OoB: Out of Blogger
3rd Appointment
Today. At 1430 hours at SGH.
'Tis the day for me to find out which direction in my life I will be heading.
'Tis the day for me to find out which direction in my life I will be heading.
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
Trivia - What's in a name?
I realise that black women possess very nice and unique names. Omarosa (The Apprentice I), Solange & Beyonce (the famous Knowles sisters), Fantasia (American Idol 3), Condoleezza (the influential Ms Rice...need I type more?), etc.
Definitely beat the ones which Singaporean Chinese girls use to call themselves - "Erisline", "Xaverie" (my company), "Chantel" (posers who die die wanna be Ford models) and many more which my clogged mind can't think of now.
OK, end of trivia for now. Time to get ready for the serious stuff at work ("Geek Meeting" starts in 10)....and let's hope Indonesia signs the anti-haze contract and North Korean stops nuclear testing.
:DDDDD
Definitely beat the ones which Singaporean Chinese girls use to call themselves - "Erisline", "Xaverie" (my company), "Chantel" (posers who die die wanna be Ford models) and many more which my clogged mind can't think of now.
OK, end of trivia for now. Time to get ready for the serious stuff at work ("Geek Meeting" starts in 10)....and let's hope Indonesia signs the anti-haze contract and North Korean stops nuclear testing.
:DDDDD
Flu Condition
My sneezing and mucus flow have not abated one bit...this plus just 3 hours of sleep....I am ready to bite anybody who gets too near me. I better like your face.
Monday, October 16, 2006
Weekend
It was a nice weekend. I call it the Becky-turns-4 Weekend.
13 Oct
Becks got a very nice DIY card from school. She sprinkled all the glitter in the alphabets "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" and produced a nice piece of 'artwork' with her gong gong in the evening. :)
I keep telling myself I want to frame all these works and her photos...but been procrastinating to shop for nice but simple photoframes.
14 Oct
Though it was so unfortunate that Mong was down with fever with no known reason (no spots/blisters too!), it didn't stop us from visiting Sentosa's Underwater World on Saturday morning.
The last time we went there was exactly 2 years ago....only with Becks, when the monorail was facing its last days. This time, we drove straight there, busted $51.50 to experience the cool dark world to see the fishies, jelly fish, dugongs, sharks and many others. And this time, Becks can remember what she saw and relate to her por por and gong gong. :)
Frankly, Sentosa is just a boring place. Still. Decades ago Mom already joked about "Sian-tou-sei" ("boring to death" in Cantonese). Now with so much construction going on, the heat + haze, with buildings called Artist Village but only have workers lying around catching a shut-eye, what is there to do and see there????
Yes, you're right. I'm not a beachy person. The IR better be up and about fast.
Anyways, we swung by Beach Road Prawn Mee along East Coast Road for lunch. We parked outside 52 Telok Kurau Lorong N and took a reminiscent walk to the eating place.
The prawn mee sucked. A few years ago, I would ask for a 2nd bowl of soup. That day I couldn't even finish the 1st one. It was diluted! Bye bye prawn mee stall. You ain't getting this repeated customer anymore!
15 Oct
Becky turns 4! At 6:50pm, I think...4 years ago.
Now she's a girl who memorizes my cell phone number, dials them herself and has a decent conversation with me.
13 Oct
Becks got a very nice DIY card from school. She sprinkled all the glitter in the alphabets "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" and produced a nice piece of 'artwork' with her gong gong in the evening. :)
I keep telling myself I want to frame all these works and her photos...but been procrastinating to shop for nice but simple photoframes.
14 Oct
Though it was so unfortunate that Mong was down with fever with no known reason (no spots/blisters too!), it didn't stop us from visiting Sentosa's Underwater World on Saturday morning.
The last time we went there was exactly 2 years ago....only with Becks, when the monorail was facing its last days. This time, we drove straight there, busted $51.50 to experience the cool dark world to see the fishies, jelly fish, dugongs, sharks and many others. And this time, Becks can remember what she saw and relate to her por por and gong gong. :)
Frankly, Sentosa is just a boring place. Still. Decades ago Mom already joked about "Sian-tou-sei" ("boring to death" in Cantonese). Now with so much construction going on, the heat + haze, with buildings called Artist Village but only have workers lying around catching a shut-eye, what is there to do and see there????
Yes, you're right. I'm not a beachy person. The IR better be up and about fast.
Anyways, we swung by Beach Road Prawn Mee along East Coast Road for lunch. We parked outside 52 Telok Kurau Lorong N and took a reminiscent walk to the eating place.
The prawn mee sucked. A few years ago, I would ask for a 2nd bowl of soup. That day I couldn't even finish the 1st one. It was diluted! Bye bye prawn mee stall. You ain't getting this repeated customer anymore!
15 Oct
Becky turns 4! At 6:50pm, I think...4 years ago.
Now she's a girl who memorizes my cell phone number, dials them herself and has a decent conversation with me.
Survival
Survival tip for today: Panadol Cold pills.
4 of them. 2 after breakfast and 2 after lunch...before I head home.
*aaaachoo....!!!*
4 of them. 2 after breakfast and 2 after lunch...before I head home.
*aaaachoo....!!!*
Friday, October 13, 2006
"Wretched Place"
As Keathan has aptly called it, I found the name and ADDRESS of the place (refer to my entry on 5 Oct)!
Il Fiore Ristorante Italiano
50 Raffles Place
#B1-01 Shell Tower
Yes, the place (Italian?) which sells small plates of hor fun and small-of-everything-else-I-bet at an average of S$15. Siao.
FOLKS, STAY CLEAR!
Il Fiore Ristorante Italiano
50 Raffles Place
#B1-01 Shell Tower
Yes, the place (Italian?) which sells small plates of hor fun and small-of-everything-else-I-bet at an average of S$15. Siao.
FOLKS, STAY CLEAR!
Rain!
It's raining, it's pouring,
the old man is snoring......
What I basically want to say is - finally it's raining! Yay! I think since the haze started, we haven't felt a drop from the skies above. I hope the air will clear a lot more and stop giving me 'em itches around my eyes and nose.
Lunch was with my Financial Planner, Susan. I haven't seen her for a while so catching up was good. She brought me to Keong Saik Street to have some hor fun and chicken in some dark sweet sauce and lots of garlic. Very yummy. Very 'my kind'. Oh, and while we were chatting, when I should be looking at Susan (because it is only polite!), I was looking out at the streets and saw Glenn Goei (the local chap who gave us Forever Fever) walk past. He looks young and nice in person.
Whatever.
It's raining!!!
the old man is snoring......
What I basically want to say is - finally it's raining! Yay! I think since the haze started, we haven't felt a drop from the skies above. I hope the air will clear a lot more and stop giving me 'em itches around my eyes and nose.
Lunch was with my Financial Planner, Susan. I haven't seen her for a while so catching up was good. She brought me to Keong Saik Street to have some hor fun and chicken in some dark sweet sauce and lots of garlic. Very yummy. Very 'my kind'. Oh, and while we were chatting, when I should be looking at Susan (because it is only polite!), I was looking out at the streets and saw Glenn Goei (the local chap who gave us Forever Fever) walk past. He looks young and nice in person.
Whatever.
It's raining!!!
Thursday, October 12, 2006
Achievement
Significant words/sentences Mong has been saying more than once since the last therapy session: push, open door, on TV, watch TV, help, walk, run, pass urine, hide, found it, what animal is this?, touch the owl (there's his current favourite book from the library), kiss kiss the owl.
I'm very proud of him. :) Ganbate-ne!
I didn't mention that M and I finally brought him to view the school at Punggol. It's a really nice place. Spacious with smiley teachers speaking good English. The only scary part is the fees would cost S$1,280 for 10 weeks, excluding the fare for the daily 2-way bus trips.
But I saw the practical learning materials and the non-classroom concept and I know at age 3, it would suit Mong tremendously, sustain his interest which only has a span of 5-10minutes. He cannot be confined to a small chair, seated by the table doing worksheets and colouring for 40 minutes (this was the time-table I saw when I visited the other centre opposite my flat. Of course the fees was also 3 times lower lah...)...so only Mommy knows, or rather wants the best for him.
I'm very proud of him. :) Ganbate-ne!
I didn't mention that M and I finally brought him to view the school at Punggol. It's a really nice place. Spacious with smiley teachers speaking good English. The only scary part is the fees would cost S$1,280 for 10 weeks, excluding the fare for the daily 2-way bus trips.
But I saw the practical learning materials and the non-classroom concept and I know at age 3, it would suit Mong tremendously, sustain his interest which only has a span of 5-10minutes. He cannot be confined to a small chair, seated by the table doing worksheets and colouring for 40 minutes (this was the time-table I saw when I visited the other centre opposite my flat. Of course the fees was also 3 times lower lah...)...so only Mommy knows, or rather wants the best for him.
Increasing Preference
I am beginning to love creamy peanut butter with plain milk bread...(make the creamy peanut butter very thick, please)
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