Monday, June 25, 2007
House Removal
Why do the companies call it that? In Chinese, we call it 'ban1 jia1' but it can't serve as a direct translation!
Saturday, June 23, 2007
A Union
Lawrence gets married!!!
A few years ago when we hung out often, I never would have thought he would get married before 35. Because he said so and because he had a string of girlfriends who didn't seem to want to commit eventually. And there he was, on a VERY hot Saturday afternoon, sweating in his tux, gel in his hair with his bride next to him, offering the oldies tea. :)
A few years ago when we hung out often, I never would have thought he would get married before 35. Because he said so and because he had a string of girlfriends who didn't seem to want to commit eventually. And there he was, on a VERY hot Saturday afternoon, sweating in his tux, gel in his hair with his bride next to him, offering the oldies tea. :)
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
20 June
And Mong turns 3.
I think I've mentioned it before. The 2 biggest feelings I experience consistently, as a parent, are guilt and being contradicting. Guilt, hence I have only 2 hours' of Me-Time every weekend. Being contradicting because I feel so relieved that he is growing up this fast (independence in terms of practical life) yet I am saddened that every inch of his baby fats is disappearing so soon and that innocence and mischief too.
I think I've mentioned it before. The 2 biggest feelings I experience consistently, as a parent, are guilt and being contradicting. Guilt, hence I have only 2 hours' of Me-Time every weekend. Being contradicting because I feel so relieved that he is growing up this fast (independence in terms of practical life) yet I am saddened that every inch of his baby fats is disappearing so soon and that innocence and mischief too.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
A Contract Law Seminar...and my shopping...(how do they relate?)
The one good thing about attending an extremely boring Contract Law Seminar (read: Law!) was the 2-hour chance I got afterward to undergo retail therapy.
Friends will know I am not crazy about shopping but my need to get "something during Great Singapore Sale" got intense as July approaches, the most notorious month this year when the new GST rate kicks in.
Anyways.................lawyers will always fascinate me. All that jargon crammed in their brains. One of them gave the talk with his eyes closed throughout, oblivious to our restlessness. Blah blah blah....he makes a lot of money too. :D
Friends will know I am not crazy about shopping but my need to get "something during Great Singapore Sale" got intense as July approaches, the most notorious month this year when the new GST rate kicks in.
Anyways.................lawyers will always fascinate me. All that jargon crammed in their brains. One of them gave the talk with his eyes closed throughout, oblivious to our restlessness. Blah blah blah....he makes a lot of money too. :D
Friday, June 15, 2007
An Amazing Feat
I've always known females were amazing. We can remove a bra without taking our blouses/tees off. With a twist and turn, viola, out comes the bra without much struggle.
Today, I pride myself to be in this gender...again (of course besides the fact our threshold of pain is way higher than guys. We do not die from pain of child birth. HA!). I witnessed this lady, all bare-faced when she boarded the train, standing without support, one hand with her compact powder and mascara stick, blusher & lipstick firmly in between the fingers of the same hand, with the other deftly applying the powder on her face.
When I looked up from my book 20 minutes later (of course all this while pretending whatever she was doing was of no interest to me when c'mon! I was impressed to no end!), she was a different (improved) vision. And it was just in time for her destination too.
Today, I pride myself to be in this gender...again (of course besides the fact our threshold of pain is way higher than guys. We do not die from pain of child birth. HA!). I witnessed this lady, all bare-faced when she boarded the train, standing without support, one hand with her compact powder and mascara stick, blusher & lipstick firmly in between the fingers of the same hand, with the other deftly applying the powder on her face.
When I looked up from my book 20 minutes later (of course all this while pretending whatever she was doing was of no interest to me when c'mon! I was impressed to no end!), she was a different (improved) vision. And it was just in time for her destination too.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
One year old!
Happy Birthday, Miffys-Wonderland!
Yep, 1 year ago, out of restlessness, this blog was started...in the office. It's amazing how fast time flies and how this is still going on. Michelin and :B thought it would not keep up, given my 'character' (and what would that be, gals?)
Well, to more 'restless' days ahead. :)
Yep, 1 year ago, out of restlessness, this blog was started...in the office. It's amazing how fast time flies and how this is still going on. Michelin and :B thought it would not keep up, given my 'character' (and what would that be, gals?)
Well, to more 'restless' days ahead. :)
Monday, June 11, 2007
Makes no sense!
Cellphone ringing, I looked over to find the very irritating "private no." on display. I pay a monthly $5 to the service provider for caller ID and don't expect the other side to outsmart me.
Anyways, I'm sure you have been receiving sales calls from banks. I don't mind them because some have extended me service which I would otherwise not be aware of and mostly, I know like myself, they are just doing their job.
So I found myself contemplating if I should answer the call, well knowing it's gonna be from a bank. Then again it could be an old friend whom I like or head-hunting company (haha) or free ticket to Paris (hahaha).
Man: Hello, Ms Lee, this is Patrick from xxx bank.
Miffy: *DOH!* Mm-hmm.
Man: I am calling to survey our customer service level. I refer to a call by one of our officers, Catherine on 30 May.
Miffy: 30 May??!! Catherine?
Man: Yes, a female.
Miffy: *my question wasn't on her gender, you fool! Like how am I supposed to remember a call that day by someone that name if it is as irregular as my bowel movement?!!!?* I'm sorry, I don't remember so I can't do the survey (in my most polite of tone...in case karma does happen).
Man: Oh...OK *hangs up*
If you want to do a survey effectively, you must perform it immediately! Most of us probably don't even remember what we have for lunch on the same day a few hours later, especially when every working day is similar.
The call really made no sense to me.
Anyways, I'm sure you have been receiving sales calls from banks. I don't mind them because some have extended me service which I would otherwise not be aware of and mostly, I know like myself, they are just doing their job.
So I found myself contemplating if I should answer the call, well knowing it's gonna be from a bank. Then again it could be an old friend whom I like or head-hunting company (haha) or free ticket to Paris (hahaha).
Man: Hello, Ms Lee, this is Patrick from xxx bank.
Miffy: *DOH!* Mm-hmm.
Man: I am calling to survey our customer service level. I refer to a call by one of our officers, Catherine on 30 May.
Miffy: 30 May??!! Catherine?
Man: Yes, a female.
Miffy: *my question wasn't on her gender, you fool! Like how am I supposed to remember a call that day by someone that name if it is as irregular as my bowel movement?!!!?* I'm sorry, I don't remember so I can't do the survey (in my most polite of tone...in case karma does happen).
Man: Oh...OK *hangs up*
If you want to do a survey effectively, you must perform it immediately! Most of us probably don't even remember what we have for lunch on the same day a few hours later, especially when every working day is similar.
The call really made no sense to me.
Eugenics
Perhaps it's my lack of vocab but I discovered there is such a word and study as 'eugenics'. I only knew "Eugene" was a name meant for nerds and "Eugenia" was one meant for sophisticated and confident lasses. :P
The study of or belief in the possibility of improving the qualities of the human species or a human population, esp. by such means as discouraging reproduction by persons having genetic defects or presumed to have inheritable undesirable traits (negative eugenics) or encouraging reproduction by persons presumed to have inheritable desirable traits (positive eugenics).
The study of or belief in the possibility of improving the qualities of the human species or a human population, esp. by such means as discouraging reproduction by persons having genetic defects or presumed to have inheritable undesirable traits (negative eugenics) or encouraging reproduction by persons presumed to have inheritable desirable traits (positive eugenics).
Monday
This morning, I spent a good one minute picking all dried apricots out of my bread slice.
Out of mistake, M bought the really heavy and expensive loaf of Fruit & Nut bread by Gardenia. I like the nut part but the fruit...doesn't impress me. 5 more slices to go! No wastage, no wastage.....
Out of mistake, M bought the really heavy and expensive loaf of Fruit & Nut bread by Gardenia. I like the nut part but the fruit...doesn't impress me. 5 more slices to go! No wastage, no wastage.....
Saturday, June 09, 2007
:B returns!
Good pal :B came back on Saturday morning, wee hours, for a short holiday. We met for our usual teh si albeit migraine.
Procrastination
Our procrastination led to the ultimate death of our fridge and hence, the disposal of good frozen food.
The news came early in the morning, something I suspected would arrive sooner not later, when the buzzing sound the night before was practically deafening. So with quick smses to find out which is a recommended brand, we bought one to be delivered on Monday noon.
Fridge is something I took for granted. Food to be cooked for our meals had to be bought a few hours before. Medicine, milk and yoghurt were quickly brought to my folks' place to be salvaged. There was no ice and cold water which meant I drank much less during the weekends. With the current heat, my headache developed to a migraine.
And all because of one bad habit.
The news came early in the morning, something I suspected would arrive sooner not later, when the buzzing sound the night before was practically deafening. So with quick smses to find out which is a recommended brand, we bought one to be delivered on Monday noon.
Fridge is something I took for granted. Food to be cooked for our meals had to be bought a few hours before. Medicine, milk and yoghurt were quickly brought to my folks' place to be salvaged. There was no ice and cold water which meant I drank much less during the weekends. With the current heat, my headache developed to a migraine.
And all because of one bad habit.
Friday, June 08, 2007
Miffy's "Daily Bread"
We complain of train crowd at peak hours. The body odour, breath in your face, the literal jamming of bodies against one another, etc. Eww....
There are children in our midst too. Pre-schoolers whose parents have no choice/preference to send them to a childcare centre near their offices. I see them early in the morning, bleary-eyed, having to stand (because the other passengers had shut their eyes - conveniently or not!) throughout the journey, all but silent, apparently accepting daily life as it is.
It is a lesson of endurance and acceptance to me, no matter how simple.
There are children in our midst too. Pre-schoolers whose parents have no choice/preference to send them to a childcare centre near their offices. I see them early in the morning, bleary-eyed, having to stand (because the other passengers had shut their eyes - conveniently or not!) throughout the journey, all but silent, apparently accepting daily life as it is.
It is a lesson of endurance and acceptance to me, no matter how simple.
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
2 Selfless Friends
I wanna blog about 2 selfless friends - Wai Lin & Say Kheng. No abbreviations, no nicknames.
They dun fuss about a lousy haircut, they dun lament about the zits that develop nearing the end of a 28-day cycle. Facing more people who are self-indulgent lately, I must admit I find them a breath of fresh air.
Wai Lin, like any other times, had been planning to go somewhere, no frills preferably, to spend time after her temporary stint with a company finally ended. She decided on Khao Lak, one of the badly tsunami-hit places 2.5 years ago. She had the chance to know a Thai doctor who migrated to USA at the age of 4 but returned to his home country when the disaster struck. The doctor not only provided medical services but set up an orphanage and a foundation for donations. She came back a different person and started a 'mini project' in which she penned an article and posted photographs to increase awareness of the plight of the community and provided means as to how we can help in terms of monetary donation.
Say Kheng, with all her accumulated leave has chosen to go to East Timor for volunteer work. I don't have details of her expedition but we will arrange to meet upon her return, for updates.
I'm glad I have them in my midst. :)
They dun fuss about a lousy haircut, they dun lament about the zits that develop nearing the end of a 28-day cycle. Facing more people who are self-indulgent lately, I must admit I find them a breath of fresh air.
Wai Lin, like any other times, had been planning to go somewhere, no frills preferably, to spend time after her temporary stint with a company finally ended. She decided on Khao Lak, one of the badly tsunami-hit places 2.5 years ago. She had the chance to know a Thai doctor who migrated to USA at the age of 4 but returned to his home country when the disaster struck. The doctor not only provided medical services but set up an orphanage and a foundation for donations. She came back a different person and started a 'mini project' in which she penned an article and posted photographs to increase awareness of the plight of the community and provided means as to how we can help in terms of monetary donation.
Say Kheng, with all her accumulated leave has chosen to go to East Timor for volunteer work. I don't have details of her expedition but we will arrange to meet upon her return, for updates.
I'm glad I have them in my midst. :)
Monday, June 04, 2007
Maids (1...2...3...and counting)
My secondary school friend sent off 3 maids in 3 months. WHOO! And I thought I have low threshold for tolerance.
Golden Shower?
There is one group of people whom I will never be able to fathom. That without a bath-tub or jacuzzi, why does one need 30 minutes for a bath??!!! So many surface areas to cleanse?????
Sunday, June 03, 2007
DEAR
Drop Everything And Read - I think this is NLB's latest slogan. My recent revival has nothing to do with it but I'm glad it's back, even if it's for a while.
I got another Jodi Picoult's finest after failing with John Irving and Paulo Coelho (likely to fail because after flipping the 1st few pages, I couldn't 'feel' anything poetic about his writing though critics have strongly claimed so).
So there, an update about ME. A change...(nothing else).
I got another Jodi Picoult's finest after failing with John Irving and Paulo Coelho (likely to fail because after flipping the 1st few pages, I couldn't 'feel' anything poetic about his writing though critics have strongly claimed so).
So there, an update about ME. A change...(nothing else).
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Reality bites...the inconvenient truth
I'm not a zombie movie fan but I remembered 5 years ago, when I watched "28 Days Later", I enjoyed it with no expectation.
5 years/260 weeks/1825 days later, I can't say the same for its sequel "28 Weeks Later". Apart from the jarring noise and the wobbly camera shots (to create havoc in the movie I believe), I guess I felt really uncomfortable because it was too close to home. The underlying message of terrorism, diseases, etc. The idea of a SARS recurrence, much more rampant..."if containment does not work, extermination..."
How the world is changing already...for the worse.
5 years/260 weeks/1825 days later, I can't say the same for its sequel "28 Weeks Later". Apart from the jarring noise and the wobbly camera shots (to create havoc in the movie I believe), I guess I felt really uncomfortable because it was too close to home. The underlying message of terrorism, diseases, etc. The idea of a SARS recurrence, much more rampant..."if containment does not work, extermination..."
How the world is changing already...for the worse.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Stranger Than Fiction
Take it literally. It's the title of the DVD I caught over the weekend. I told :B 'not to waste another weekend not renting it'.
It's one of those unique and charismatic shows I haven't seen in a long time. I'm glad I got past my disinclination when I saw Will Ferrell on the cover. That curly hair guy who's always goofin' around in his comedies to the point of irritation. In this movie, he was truly an actor.
Give it a go!
It's one of those unique and charismatic shows I haven't seen in a long time. I'm glad I got past my disinclination when I saw Will Ferrell on the cover. That curly hair guy who's always goofin' around in his comedies to the point of irritation. In this movie, he was truly an actor.
Give it a go!
PTM
M and I are taking half-day leave to attend Becks' annual parent-teacher meeting at her school today.
Last year wasn't all fine and dandy so I hope this year, after 12 months, the little girl whom I believed is chirpy most of the time and have blossomed emotionally and mentally would be perceived the same way by her teachers.
After that, M and I are hoping to catch 28 Weeks Later on the big screen *yea*. We are choosing that over SpiderMan 3 *double yea (for me)*. Till later.
Last year wasn't all fine and dandy so I hope this year, after 12 months, the little girl whom I believed is chirpy most of the time and have blossomed emotionally and mentally would be perceived the same way by her teachers.
After that, M and I are hoping to catch 28 Weeks Later on the big screen *yea*. We are choosing that over SpiderMan 3 *double yea (for me)*. Till later.
Monday, May 21, 2007
Whisky
Not the hard liquor but a 3-month old Golden Retriever puppy which I held in my arms for 2 full minutes on Sunday.
"Nanny" just earned the reputation of being crazy by buying one for over $2,000, stocking up food which totalled over $1,000, all in her 5-room HDB unit. If you had followed my blog, you'll know she is working from home now. So afraid she may end up talking to the walls, plants and curtains, she got this going-to-grow-into-a-big-dog-covered-in-thick-rich-fur as her companion.
BIG mistake (but I dare not tell her).
"Nanny" just earned the reputation of being crazy by buying one for over $2,000, stocking up food which totalled over $1,000, all in her 5-room HDB unit. If you had followed my blog, you'll know she is working from home now. So afraid she may end up talking to the walls, plants and curtains, she got this going-to-grow-into-a-big-dog-covered-in-thick-rich-fur as her companion.
BIG mistake (but I dare not tell her).
Sugar & Spice...and all things nice
A few weeks ago, we saw a nice red car with Hello Kitty heads imprinted on the body of it zipping on the road. The steering wheel was also covered with 'furry pink stuff' which would surely leave no sweaty palms sticking to the otherwise usual leather...and I thought the car definitely belonged to a female.
Of course that was true otherwise I would be blogging about it sooner than now. But it hit me - surely there is one normal adult male in this world who fancies Hello Kitty. Or are they all closet ones???
I could be wrong but I think it's easier being a girl. No inhibitions. People won't judge or laugh at you if you express outwardly you are a Hello Kitty lover and you like everything about you to be pink and flowery. We can keep our hair long and wear pretty Evita Peroni accessories. We can be bitchy and blame it on PMS (perpetually!).
Of course that was true otherwise I would be blogging about it sooner than now. But it hit me - surely there is one normal adult male in this world who fancies Hello Kitty. Or are they all closet ones???
I could be wrong but I think it's easier being a girl. No inhibitions. People won't judge or laugh at you if you express outwardly you are a Hello Kitty lover and you like everything about you to be pink and flowery. We can keep our hair long and wear pretty Evita Peroni accessories. We can be bitchy and blame it on PMS (perpetually!).
Friday, May 18, 2007
Mini-Farewell Dinner
It was the 8 of us only, including the MD. Dinner was in a nice cozy Italian restaurant - Pasta Brava - tucked away from the busy streets of the business district.
Actually Italian food is quite gross...spaghetti submerged in squid ink, veal shank with its bone marrow (I was told people would dig and dig the piece of mushy flesh in the centre for calcium...like how much would that give you unless you consume it every single day but that would mean you'll have to earn the pay of an MNC CEO or worse, confine the spaces of so many lambs and kill them with no conscience).
In spite of myself, I did enjoy having this last cozy meal with my MD whom I have worked for for the past 4 years. He's a retiring old man whose face lights up whenever he talks about golf and Italian food. We took several photos with him and ended the night with memories which we hope he can keep for a long time.
Actually Italian food is quite gross...spaghetti submerged in squid ink, veal shank with its bone marrow (I was told people would dig and dig the piece of mushy flesh in the centre for calcium...like how much would that give you unless you consume it every single day but that would mean you'll have to earn the pay of an MNC CEO or worse, confine the spaces of so many lambs and kill them with no conscience).
In spite of myself, I did enjoy having this last cozy meal with my MD whom I have worked for for the past 4 years. He's a retiring old man whose face lights up whenever he talks about golf and Italian food. We took several photos with him and ended the night with memories which we hope he can keep for a long time.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
New Era Kiddies' Songs?
I heard Becks sing to the chorus of The Fray's How to Save a Life last night. Whatever happened to "London Bridge is falling down"??????????????
Monday, May 14, 2007
Retirement Planning
I'm sure there are many ways and instruments designed to help one save for one's retirement. But not having lunch out and instead consuming bread every working day for this reason is INSANE.
This person is a colleague in her early 30s and has a young child. I'd say to save a lot more, she might as well not have any kid. :P
*I'm no devil's advocate*
This person is a colleague in her early 30s and has a young child. I'd say to save a lot more, she might as well not have any kid. :P
*I'm no devil's advocate*
The One
I heard that Mong has a good friend in school already. Whenever class is dismissed, he'll wave specifically to him, say 'bye' and 'see you tomorrow' enthusiastically. It's just adorable thinking about it (sadly I haven't witnessed any moment before; my maid was the one who reported it to me).
When you are 3, what is it that makes the other the one friend for you?
15 May: I found out that his name is "Perry". :)
When you are 3, what is it that makes the other the one friend for you?
15 May: I found out that his name is "Perry". :)
Friday, May 11, 2007
Surprise from Pete...
Fast-talking Peter, my ole friend from college is getting married on 5 August! When I saw his sms at 5am extending his invitation to dinner (while checking the time when I woke up from my 100th dream), I thought he was joking.
His (many) past relationships haven't worked out and several times when it was going quite well, he would pull the plug citing 'lack of commitment' because the then-girlfriend would be hinting heavily to apply for a flat. And I would like to admit in this blog that there was a fleeting moment I thought he could be a closet gay.
I haven't spoken or met him for some time so I guess there's plenty of catching up.
His (many) past relationships haven't worked out and several times when it was going quite well, he would pull the plug citing 'lack of commitment' because the then-girlfriend would be hinting heavily to apply for a flat. And I would like to admit in this blog that there was a fleeting moment I thought he could be a closet gay.
I haven't spoken or met him for some time so I guess there's plenty of catching up.
Not so nuts about nuts
I realise something - while I really love chocolate with nuts, especially the big chunky and fresh almond ones, I really hate peanut butter with nuts.
I feel nauseous just biting through the sandwich now.
I feel nauseous just biting through the sandwich now.
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Go Organic Go...NOT!
A colleague has been going organic for the past 2 months and she convinced me with results of better health record (no MC), clearer complexion, 'cleaner and more output on a regular basis' (hmmm...), etc so I tried just now.
And the verdict? Just let me stick to my 'carnivorous' ways....
And the verdict? Just let me stick to my 'carnivorous' ways....
Wednesday, May 09, 2007
The Latest...(from Becks)
Miffy: Wah, so smelly.
Becks: Who farted? (by now, this is not a quotable quote. She's said it many times over the past months.)
Miffy: Exactly!
Becks: The smell will go away so don't worry Mummy.
Miffy: True true... (impressed that she is mastering the art of consolation)
Becks: But where does it go to?
Again I shouldn't go into jargon...Physics jargon...about diffusion and its definition of migration of air molecules...
Becks: Who farted? (by now, this is not a quotable quote. She's said it many times over the past months.)
Miffy: Exactly!
Becks: The smell will go away so don't worry Mummy.
Miffy: True true... (impressed that she is mastering the art of consolation)
Becks: But where does it go to?
Again I shouldn't go into jargon...Physics jargon...about diffusion and its definition of migration of air molecules...
New MD
Finally, a formal introduction over lunch to our new Managing Director who will be coming on board end of this month. Some of us are apprehensive regarding the possibility of change in our current working life (read: good & easy). No use speculating though.
It is cringy to witness how some of my colleagues appear to have geared up to get into his good books.
I was just there for the food man. Good ole Cantonese food...dig that lotus soup!
It is cringy to witness how some of my colleagues appear to have geared up to get into his good books.
I was just there for the food man. Good ole Cantonese food...dig that lotus soup!
Tuesday, May 08, 2007
Sun & Moon
Becks' latest: "Why do the sun and moon not appear at the same time?"
Now how do I explain without getting into all that Geography jargon which I learnt in Sec 3? :P
Now how do I explain without getting into all that Geography jargon which I learnt in Sec 3? :P
Monday, May 07, 2007
Next...
No big deal I know but I still deserve a pat on the back for having finished a book in less than 1 month. "Perfect Match" turned out to contain 2 twists and a controversial ending. I find myself wishing there is a local group which I can join and discuss with people who have read (and enjoyed) the same materials. Who the hell decides what books to read for Literature anyways???? No wonder I dropped the subject by the time I was 15 before a grade lower than C hit on my report card.
I'm onto my next one from today!
Sunday, May 06, 2007
Love
Becks: Do you love me?
Miffy: YES OF COURSE! Can't you tell from my regular daily hugs?
Becks: Do you love Travis?
Miffy: YES!
Becks: Do you love Gong gong?
Miffy: Yes, definitely too.
Becks: But I haven't seen you hug him before.
Miffy: .........
Miffy (a few seconds later): Love is expressed in different ways. There are also different kinds of love.
Becks' beloved Gong gong is my dad. How do I tell her that sometimes I wish love can be expressed in the same way, the most simple way but it would probably need the life outta me to do it?
Being Asian. Sigh.
Miffy: YES OF COURSE! Can't you tell from my regular daily hugs?
Becks: Do you love Travis?
Miffy: YES!
Becks: Do you love Gong gong?
Miffy: Yes, definitely too.
Becks: But I haven't seen you hug him before.
Miffy: .........
Miffy (a few seconds later): Love is expressed in different ways. There are also different kinds of love.
Becks' beloved Gong gong is my dad. How do I tell her that sometimes I wish love can be expressed in the same way, the most simple way but it would probably need the life outta me to do it?
Being Asian. Sigh.
Wednesday, May 02, 2007
The Door In the Floor
There was a little boy who hadn't known if he wanted to be born. His mommy didn't know if she wanted him to be born either. They lived in a cabin in the woods in an island with a lake and there was no one else around. And in the cabin, there was a door in the floor.
The little boy was afraid of what was under the door in the floor and the mother was afraid too. Once, long ago, other children had come to visit the cabin for Christmas but the children had opened the door in the floor and had disappeared down the hole. The mommy tried to look for the children but when she opened the door in the floor, she heard such an awful sound that her hair turned completely white like the hair of a ghost. And the mommy had also seen some things, things so horrible you can't imagine them and so the mommy wondered if she wanted to have a little boy, especially because of everything that might be under the door in the floor.
And then she thought "Why not? I'll just tell him not to open door in the floor."
Yet the little boy still didn't know if he wanted to be born into a world where there was a door in the floor. But there were some beautiful things in the woods, on the island and the lake.
"Why not take a chance?" he thought.
And so the little boy was born and he was happy, and his mommy was happy again too. Although she told the boy, at least once everyay, "Don't ever, not ever, never never never open the door in the floor."
But of course he was only a little boy. If you were that little boy, wouldn't you want to open the door in the floor?
- "The Door In the Floor" movie adapted from the novel "A Widow for One Year" by John Irving.
(This is definitely the next book I'm reading)
The little boy was afraid of what was under the door in the floor and the mother was afraid too. Once, long ago, other children had come to visit the cabin for Christmas but the children had opened the door in the floor and had disappeared down the hole. The mommy tried to look for the children but when she opened the door in the floor, she heard such an awful sound that her hair turned completely white like the hair of a ghost. And the mommy had also seen some things, things so horrible you can't imagine them and so the mommy wondered if she wanted to have a little boy, especially because of everything that might be under the door in the floor.
And then she thought "Why not? I'll just tell him not to open door in the floor."
Yet the little boy still didn't know if he wanted to be born into a world where there was a door in the floor. But there were some beautiful things in the woods, on the island and the lake.
"Why not take a chance?" he thought.
And so the little boy was born and he was happy, and his mommy was happy again too. Although she told the boy, at least once everyay, "Don't ever, not ever, never never never open the door in the floor."
But of course he was only a little boy. If you were that little boy, wouldn't you want to open the door in the floor?
- "The Door In the Floor" movie adapted from the novel "A Widow for One Year" by John Irving.
(This is definitely the next book I'm reading)
4th
Mom told me my cousin is expecting her 4th baby. The same cousin who just had twins not long ago. My first exclamation:
"What for????"
"What for????"
Tuesday, May 01, 2007
30th (part 2)
I have to add: on the night of 30 Apr, 'tis the 3rd time the freakin flu bug struck me in 6 weeks!
:(
:(
Monday, April 30, 2007
30th
1. Company Holiday
The 2nd one of the year...I never know what is actually being celebrated but who's asking. It gives me the chance to send Becks off to school, fetch Mong back, seeing their faces light up when they see it's mine and not the maid's. This is not a daily affair, given that I'm a working mom so I cherish every moment of it.
2. QT's Birthday
QT...one of the 4some whom I met last Wed. Also 2 months to RJ's (another one of the 4some). 4 months to mine.
3. Last Day for WL at her current working place
Locating close to me, we have managed to catch up often enough over lunch instead of over instant messaging. Today marks her last day so it does make me wonder when the next time would be.
4. Last Day for "Nanny" at her current working place
It wasn't too long ago that we were invited to her personal office space to mark her 1st day as an(very very brave) entrepreneur. Alas the main office didn't wish to wait long to see success so she has made the difficult decision to plough on on her own. So from May onwards, she will work from home. New age thingy one may say....
The 2nd one of the year...I never know what is actually being celebrated but who's asking. It gives me the chance to send Becks off to school, fetch Mong back, seeing their faces light up when they see it's mine and not the maid's. This is not a daily affair, given that I'm a working mom so I cherish every moment of it.
2. QT's Birthday
QT...one of the 4some whom I met last Wed. Also 2 months to RJ's (another one of the 4some). 4 months to mine.
3. Last Day for WL at her current working place
Locating close to me, we have managed to catch up often enough over lunch instead of over instant messaging. Today marks her last day so it does make me wonder when the next time would be.
4. Last Day for "Nanny" at her current working place
It wasn't too long ago that we were invited to her personal office space to mark her 1st day as an(very very brave) entrepreneur. Alas the main office didn't wish to wait long to see success so she has made the difficult decision to plough on on her own. So from May onwards, she will work from home. New age thingy one may say....
Friday, April 27, 2007
Motherhood
"Sometimes when you pick up your child, you can feel the map of your own bones beneath your hands, or smell the scent of your skin in the nape of his neck. This is the most extraordinary thing about motherhood - finding a piece of yourself separate and apart that all the same you could not live without. It is the feeling you get when you place the last scrap of the thousand-piece jigsaw puzzle; it is the last footfall in a photo-finish race; exhilaration and homecoming and stunned wonder, caught between those stubby fingers and the spaces where baby teeth have given way..."
- Perfect Match
By Jodi Picoult
- Perfect Match
By Jodi Picoult
Resting
I'm at home now, thanks to major 'turbulence' in my stomach which started since Wednesday night. Also the same night when I had so much fun catching up with the 3 galfriends. The night was certainly marred by an unknown thingy which caused me severe stomach ache and fever and hence a sleepless night.
Despite that, I had to pick up a Shanghainese guest the following day (yesterday actually), did PR work, had meeting the whole morning, did more PR work over lunch, conducted a presentation thereafter and did the last bit of PR work over dinner. That was through gritted teeth. And so today, I decided to 'go on strike'.
With some time later when the troops nap, I have bought my favourite snack (Whittaker's Almond Gold Bar!), readying myself for a good movie or read - I can't quite decide yet. :)
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Fab 4?
This picture was taken 2 years ago. Also the last time 4 of us managed to squeeze time to meet.Today, with one of us facing the stress of her son's primary 1's CA (do you remember this?!) and another facing the success of her newly-renovated shop at Plaza Singapore, we have finally set on the date to meet again.
Friends from my college during 1st 3 months...at Temasek JC...16 years ago. We never lost touch.
Monday, April 23, 2007
New Addition (to the family)?
I really didn't expect it...not that it's a bad thing. I wish I can embrace it whole-heartedly but Becks may have mixed feeling about it. She's growing up so fast, possessing and expressing her own feelings and opinions already. M and I need to realise they cannot be ignored.
I think we have until July......
I think we have until July......
Sunday, April 22, 2007
New AddiCtion
Addy came all the way (she stays in Clementi) to Kovan to meet me for breakfast on Saturday *much appeciated*. It was a great catch-up over caffeine (4 cups in total) and not without smelling like char kway teow from head to toe.
She gave Becks a big packet of colourful gummis which I thought nothing of except for the gesture. But good things always come small and disguised. True enough, a few hours later, it became my latest addiction. The sweet and sour taste provided the much needed physical boost over the weekend, especially when Mong's temperate rose to 39.9C. That was madness.
She gave Becks a big packet of colourful gummis which I thought nothing of except for the gesture. But good things always come small and disguised. True enough, a few hours later, it became my latest addiction. The sweet and sour taste provided the much needed physical boost over the weekend, especially when Mong's temperate rose to 39.9C. That was madness.
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Jennifer
The last time I met and blogged about this fast-talking friend of mine was more than 6 months ago (26 Sep 06) and that was a sub-topic. Something which I wanted to enter like a diary, simply.
This time, she becomes the header of the topic because I'm blown away by her updates! After 7 years, she's finally moving on to another company for a 'more challenging' scope and greater capacity (investment banking which translates to 'bigger better bucks') and she's driving a SAAB convertible! And er yes....she's still single. Not married, not attached, not dating.
Any trade-off? I guess there are none where she's concerned. Would you know what you are missing if you dun have it in the first place?
This time, she becomes the header of the topic because I'm blown away by her updates! After 7 years, she's finally moving on to another company for a 'more challenging' scope and greater capacity (investment banking which translates to 'bigger better bucks') and she's driving a SAAB convertible! And er yes....she's still single. Not married, not attached, not dating.
Any trade-off? I guess there are none where she's concerned. Would you know what you are missing if you dun have it in the first place?
Monday, April 16, 2007
Ramblings
1. Constipation
When people say you look 'constipated', it's not a compliment. These days (pardon me for the intimacy) - and I dun usually keep score - if I look it, that's because I believe I haven't done it for DAYS! Now I'm wondering where all the food went.
Oh crap!
2. Soundtrack
I haven't come across a truly nice song on the radio for ages. Besides enjoying the powerful performances of the leads in 'Snowcake', the soundtrack made it unforgettable.
Thanks to the lack of 'happenings' at work today, I managed to google my favourite. I wonder if it's intentional to use the group so aptly named "Broken Social Scene". Afterall, it featured Weaver playing a verbally-expression autistic woman and 'autism' is characterized by difficulty in social interaction.
Anthems For a Seventeen-year-old Girl
Now you're all gone got your make-up on and you're not coming back.
Can't you come back?
Used to be one of the rotten ones and I liked you for that. (x3)
Now you're all gone got your make-up on and you're not coming back.
Bleaching your teeth, smiling flash, talking trash, under your breath.
Wonder if Sembawang (music store) sells it...
When people say you look 'constipated', it's not a compliment. These days (pardon me for the intimacy) - and I dun usually keep score - if I look it, that's because I believe I haven't done it for DAYS! Now I'm wondering where all the food went.
Oh crap!
2. Soundtrack
I haven't come across a truly nice song on the radio for ages. Besides enjoying the powerful performances of the leads in 'Snowcake', the soundtrack made it unforgettable.
Thanks to the lack of 'happenings' at work today, I managed to google my favourite. I wonder if it's intentional to use the group so aptly named "Broken Social Scene". Afterall, it featured Weaver playing a verbally-expression autistic woman and 'autism' is characterized by difficulty in social interaction.
Anthems For a Seventeen-year-old Girl
Now you're all gone got your make-up on and you're not coming back.
Can't you come back?
Used to be one of the rotten ones and I liked you for that. (x3)
Now you're all gone got your make-up on and you're not coming back.
Bleaching your teeth, smiling flash, talking trash, under your breath.
Wonder if Sembawang (music store) sells it...
Phonics
It's coincidental, definitely.
When Becks was 3, she was really close to a gal named "Natasha". She couldn't stop talking about her then. Now that she's almost 5, you can imagine how incessant she can be if a person makes it to her "best friends' list". So now there are 2 - "Narrell" and "Nathaniel". And recently, she told me about her classmate whom she calls "Amanda Salamander". Talk about applying phonics!
When Becks was 3, she was really close to a gal named "Natasha". She couldn't stop talking about her then. Now that she's almost 5, you can imagine how incessant she can be if a person makes it to her "best friends' list". So now there are 2 - "Narrell" and "Nathaniel". And recently, she told me about her classmate whom she calls "Amanda Salamander". Talk about applying phonics!
Sunday, April 15, 2007
#9
After several futile attempts of searching at various libraries (and I didn't bother to learn how to reserve), I thought the chance presented itself before me when I passed by a Sans bookstore while waiting for Becks to finish class. Sans the popular rental bookstore....Jodi Picoult's book #9.So now I look forward to my trips home again. I'm sorry SPH, The ST just doesn't do it for me. :P
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Increment
This is the month when I will know whether the next 12 will be filled with a tad more motivation or dread.
I am not hopeful though of course, people will console and remind that it is always better to have an increment, regardless the percentage, than none at all.
And oh, I'm not in the public sector.
I am not hopeful though of course, people will console and remind that it is always better to have an increment, regardless the percentage, than none at all.
And oh, I'm not in the public sector.
Monday, April 09, 2007
Welcome Home!
Folks returned on Sunday afternoon. Becks was excited to see them again, especially her gong gong. She made them a "welcome home" card, delivered in her own handwriting and drawing. :)
Thursday, April 05, 2007
Namesake - Travis
:B and I have been exchanging emails more feverishly these 2 days. Thanks to the latest subject on Chris Daughtry, she gave me the idea of listening (and re-listening) and watching (and re-watching) his songs and video clip on YouTube. DUH.Whenever I get pissed or restless at work, I can re-watch Blink 182's I Miss You. The same video that I saw a few months before Mong emerged into this world and the same one which made me fall in love with the style of its drummer Travis Barker...whom I knew Mong shall thus be named after.
So while parents hope their sons become lawyers or doctors, I hope Mong possesses 2 things - a good sense of rhythm and a talent in music (producing, composing, singing, drum-playing, whatever!). Not really kidding.
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
A "pilot" no more?
I blogged about David once...unkindly. That guy is actually M's ex college mate. He has a notorious reputation among his close friends - he tends to 'fly aeroplane'* so agreeing to meet him for lunch today actually required a leap of faith.
I'm glad my skepticism towards him can be discarded. It feels nice seeing a friend back from a long time ago. The last time I saw him was 5.5 years ago, my wedding day.
So anyway, "Invincible David" who had a 6-pack and uniform leanness despite his drinking habit and lack of strict diet regime, has become visibly fatter. The truth about being in our 30s. That dreadful slowing down of our metabolic rate. But he makes no apology about that 'spare tyre'. Still a big fan of Elvis Presley, he merely told me even The King got fat and ugly.
I didn't dare probe about his fall-out with 'Pit Bull' (another of M's ex college mate. We used to hang out together oh-so-often). I'm sure he has good reason to spare me with the details. I just thought only women friends fall out with one another, not men. So my wild imagination took me to 2 main reasons - either or OR both - a woman & money.
Whatever.
I hope to chat with him again.
* One who makes arrangement to meet but cancels/postpones at the last minute.
I'm glad my skepticism towards him can be discarded. It feels nice seeing a friend back from a long time ago. The last time I saw him was 5.5 years ago, my wedding day.
So anyway, "Invincible David" who had a 6-pack and uniform leanness despite his drinking habit and lack of strict diet regime, has become visibly fatter. The truth about being in our 30s. That dreadful slowing down of our metabolic rate. But he makes no apology about that 'spare tyre'. Still a big fan of Elvis Presley, he merely told me even The King got fat and ugly.
I didn't dare probe about his fall-out with 'Pit Bull' (another of M's ex college mate. We used to hang out together oh-so-often). I'm sure he has good reason to spare me with the details. I just thought only women friends fall out with one another, not men. So my wild imagination took me to 2 main reasons - either or OR both - a woman & money.
Whatever.
I hope to chat with him again.
* One who makes arrangement to meet but cancels/postpones at the last minute.
Ho Chi Minh
Folks left this morning for HCM to visit sis. I heard about sis' exciting plans to bring them around.
They, especially my mom do deserve the break!
PS: I hope they bump into Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie . Ha.
They, especially my mom do deserve the break!
PS: I hope they bump into Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie . Ha.
Raccoons & Me?!
Just a few seconds before the raccoon got me, the alarm clock rang. I can't describe it...the feeling was scary! And it isn't the first time I'm dreaming of raccoons.
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
BullSh**
Some of the things that have been going on in the office are the epitome of BS. I'm glad I don't take this part of my life too seriously. I mean I am serious in areas I should be...to ensure tasks are completed on time and I get paid at the end of the month.
I can't remember if this has always been my perception and attitude, that I've always lacked this drive to excel in my career (if this word even existed in my vocabularly in the 1st place!).
Maybe that's why while I could, I chose to have a child "quite early" (considering current times).
I don't believe people can strike a balance between career and family. "Balance"-now that's another BS.
I can't remember if this has always been my perception and attitude, that I've always lacked this drive to excel in my career (if this word even existed in my vocabularly in the 1st place!).
Maybe that's why while I could, I chose to have a child "quite early" (considering current times).
I don't believe people can strike a balance between career and family. "Balance"-now that's another BS.
Monday, April 02, 2007
Friday, March 30, 2007
Friday Blues
There's always a first for everything and today for me, it is 'Friday blues'.
I am back in the office now and I feel this big fat cloud of 'blues' hovering above me. My hunch is that it'll take till 6pm to disappear. I dunno whether it is my flu, my slight soreness on the right side (still!) or the AGM at 2-6pm that's killing me.
Happy thoughts, happy thoughts...
I am back in the office now and I feel this big fat cloud of 'blues' hovering above me. My hunch is that it'll take till 6pm to disappear. I dunno whether it is my flu, my slight soreness on the right side (still!) or the AGM at 2-6pm that's killing me.
Happy thoughts, happy thoughts...
Thursday, March 29, 2007
What we take for granted
Minor it may be, with the recent operation, I realised unless you are ambidextrous, being unable to exert the whole of our right side (especially our hand) will slow you down quite a bit.
But I thank God I still have an able left hand...and for the thumb which M has reminded me time and again, without which, we wouldn't be able to survive through practical life.
Let's not forget.
But I thank God I still have an able left hand...and for the thumb which M has reminded me time and again, without which, we wouldn't be able to survive through practical life.
Let's not forget.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Movies
With ample time, of course you know I wouldn't pass the chance to indulge in my favourite past-time - watching movies which I had missed on the big screen. They are listed in no order of my preference but I would like to recommend them if you are NOT into big bang, Michael Bay-and-Jerry Bruckheimer styles.
1. Palindromes
I already enjoyed his unconventional Happiness which I bought from Amazon.com. This one was even more unconventional. To benefit the ignorant (like me...before dictionary.com), Palindromes refer to words, phrases, sentences or verses that read the same backwards and forwards.
The main character was a teenage girl called Aviva (palindrome...there!) who wanted to become a mom regardless how and with whom so she went on an adventure to fulfil this deep-seated desire. This character was played by many different actresses which got me confused at first. But what I wanna share is the style. The characters who played the first few scenes also appeared in the last few scenes such that they made me realise even that was a symmetry, like a palindrome. I totally loved the originality.
2. 300
Why is it here? Because I can't believe I watched it (on the big screen actually) but I did. Only for the abs and goatee (of the guy who played king)...or for those who enjoy MTV, pretending you are watching a Korn or Nickelback performance. :P
3. TransAmerica
I don't think it came to Singapore, did it? Some scenes made me cringe cos of the boldness. I actually lent to my folks cos in the end, I felt it was still a movie not to pass for the same reason I cringed. Several touching moments between 'mother' and son too...and you know, I'm a sucker for tear-jerking stories (excluding Korean dramas I didn't forget to add so don't accuse me of being contradicting).
4. Clerks 2
I watched Clerks 12 years ago and quite recently bought the DVD to re-watch it. I still liked it. Clerks 2 was not shot in black and white so it was easier on the eye. But what wasn't that easy was all the main actors had grown old and fat. The dialogue was still witty and bastardy. It was made more enjoyable watching it with dudes like my M and Say. Heh.
5. Paris, Je T'aime
Many many short unrelated stories about love in different forms. Even rejected/unrequited love. Mostly in French...what else can I say? ;)
1. Palindromes
I already enjoyed his unconventional Happiness which I bought from Amazon.com. This one was even more unconventional. To benefit the ignorant (like me...before dictionary.com), Palindromes refer to words, phrases, sentences or verses that read the same backwards and forwards.
The main character was a teenage girl called Aviva (palindrome...there!) who wanted to become a mom regardless how and with whom so she went on an adventure to fulfil this deep-seated desire. This character was played by many different actresses which got me confused at first. But what I wanna share is the style. The characters who played the first few scenes also appeared in the last few scenes such that they made me realise even that was a symmetry, like a palindrome. I totally loved the originality.
2. 300
Why is it here? Because I can't believe I watched it (on the big screen actually) but I did. Only for the abs and goatee (of the guy who played king)...or for those who enjoy MTV, pretending you are watching a Korn or Nickelback performance. :P
3. TransAmerica
I don't think it came to Singapore, did it? Some scenes made me cringe cos of the boldness. I actually lent to my folks cos in the end, I felt it was still a movie not to pass for the same reason I cringed. Several touching moments between 'mother' and son too...and you know, I'm a sucker for tear-jerking stories (excluding Korean dramas I didn't forget to add so don't accuse me of being contradicting).
4. Clerks 2
I watched Clerks 12 years ago and quite recently bought the DVD to re-watch it. I still liked it. Clerks 2 was not shot in black and white so it was easier on the eye. But what wasn't that easy was all the main actors had grown old and fat. The dialogue was still witty and bastardy. It was made more enjoyable watching it with dudes like my M and Say. Heh.
5. Paris, Je T'aime
Many many short unrelated stories about love in different forms. Even rejected/unrequited love. Mostly in French...what else can I say? ;)
Monday, March 26, 2007
While you were here...(13 Mar)
So what does one do when they have time at home? Upload photos before they are long forgotten...but I didn't say I'll organize them properly. They are posted in the order I remember - from lunch when we met to dinner to home (when Shen had accompanied me all the way back to see the troops).
Enjoy....(and yes! I did a pedicure!)
Hospitalization Leave
7 days...I need to rest but it'll be my very good chance to be with the troops :)
Sunday, March 18, 2007
Going going gone...
We were driving along Orchard Road when Becks caught sight of a man on a bicycle. She was amazed and pointed out excitedly: "What's that mummy?"I paused for a while, forgotten: "A trishaw."
Then M corrected me: "A rickshaw lah."
Me: "Is it??!"
M: "Er...is it not?"
Me: "I also don't know! Is there a difference?"
Truly gone are the yester-years. Actually I don't need further convincing.
Friday, March 16, 2007
Pre-admission
This morning's pre-admission blood test was a breeze. Gathering all shards of memory from past experiences (blood tests were aplenty during pregnancy!), I finally decided that fasting wasn't required. So luckily, I had my prata and TT@ Amoy first.
When it was over, I had much time left before my half-day leave ran out. Opting spontaneity, I took the train to meet "nanny". No mistake; conversational topics ran from a psychic called "Subah" and armed with a Masters of Buddhism (???!!!!) to prostitutes to work capability to her $700-spectacles.
Now to wait 7 days for the 'big thing' at SGH.
When it was over, I had much time left before my half-day leave ran out. Opting spontaneity, I took the train to meet "nanny". No mistake; conversational topics ran from a psychic called "Subah" and armed with a Masters of Buddhism (???!!!!) to prostitutes to work capability to her $700-spectacles.
Now to wait 7 days for the 'big thing' at SGH.
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Nostalgia
I have taken half-day leave this afternoon to visit nostalgia. It comes in 2 forms - a girl and a boy. I have known them for almost a decade, during the time when I was most care-free so the times we hung out together are automatically ingrained in my mind.
I hope there will be photos to do the talking.
I hope there will be photos to do the talking.
And teh-si makes 3?
:B is heading back to Singapore for a 2nd business trip.Our tea-time date has been set to 17 Mar...I say it isn't over till it's over. Just one week ago, I thought it wouldn't be happening...
Monday, March 12, 2007
Good vs Bad
In blockbuster films, the good guys live and there are happy endings. In real life, it depends on how one plays your cards, simply luck or karma.
I noticed that the good staff in my company are tendering one by one. It's like the domino effect. I haven't been testing waters but I do suppose the labour market has picked up a lot for certain posts. The bad (personally and professionally) ones remain, resilient and like maple syrup, sticky and flowing out, spreading.
YUCKS!
I noticed that the good staff in my company are tendering one by one. It's like the domino effect. I haven't been testing waters but I do suppose the labour market has picked up a lot for certain posts. The bad (personally and professionally) ones remain, resilient and like maple syrup, sticky and flowing out, spreading.
YUCKS!
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Relativity
I'm not referring to Albert Einstein's profound theory, just the simple fact that EVERYTHING is relative.
We often grouse about the conditions/benefits of the company in which we work and it seems to be human (sadistic) nature to compare with the better ones only to make ourselves feel the whole world owes us something.
What WL told me made me wonder if anything could be worse. She and her colleagues realised that their petty claim fell short of $2. So thinking it was a mistake made by Accounts, they approached them only to be faced with a rude and disgusting shock that it was no mistake. It was deliberate deduction of the amount because they had used coloured printer to print out their claim for submission.
So where does comparison end?
We often grouse about the conditions/benefits of the company in which we work and it seems to be human (sadistic) nature to compare with the better ones only to make ourselves feel the whole world owes us something.
What WL told me made me wonder if anything could be worse. She and her colleagues realised that their petty claim fell short of $2. So thinking it was a mistake made by Accounts, they approached them only to be faced with a rude and disgusting shock that it was no mistake. It was deliberate deduction of the amount because they had used coloured printer to print out their claim for submission.
So where does comparison end?
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
The Tremor (and my nausea)
A glimpse into a foodie's blog this morning whetted my appetite - a cream-filled donut! I have never seen anything quite like it. Maybe it's because it is found in Paris and unless I'm dreaming 24 hours a day, I won't be at that part of the world anytime soon.Don't you feel like like poking a hole in that wide clump of cream? And don't you wish it was vanilla ice cream instead? That was my innocent train of thought this morning.
Fast forward that to a few hours now, after experiencing tremors (no thanks to an earthquake in Sumatra), if I really ate that, I would have vomitted all of it, plus half a cup of the TT I had during lunch. This is how I feel now - very nauseous. The whole office was gasping in shock and apprehension when they found everything before and under them swaying.
Another disaster has struck. More people homeless, more living in fear and discomfort.
Monday, March 05, 2007
A Question
We were having our usual bed-time conversation when Becks asked me this last night:
"Mummy, why do you have many colleagues but only one boss?"
She stumped me simply for the fact that she had picked up words from me in the past. I tried to think of an easy-to-understand answer, then I realised what the heck, just tell what comes to mind, mostly the truth or what I know. And so, at less than age 5, I talked about company hierachy and who makes important decisions. :P
Whatever.
Kids say the darn-est things and ask the darn-est questions too!
"Mummy, why do you have many colleagues but only one boss?"
She stumped me simply for the fact that she had picked up words from me in the past. I tried to think of an easy-to-understand answer, then I realised what the heck, just tell what comes to mind, mostly the truth or what I know. And so, at less than age 5, I talked about company hierachy and who makes important decisions. :P
Whatever.
Kids say the darn-est things and ask the darn-est questions too!
Sunday, March 04, 2007
Age...ing
They say age is just a number, then yea, I am really ancient. Nobody I know would go to Carrefour for harmless shopping only to return home needing a paracetamol badly. Nobody except me.
I believe I haven't gone there, the one at Suntec City for more than 5 years. The variety of things overwhelmed me, most of all the crowd (even though it's just before 11am) and the heat inside the carpark. But I am glad that I bought 2 things - one planned and the other not. A bicycle for Becks which I hope she would use often especially with Gong gong (my dad) and a bunch of yummy Red Globe grapes.
Till next year I guess...
I believe I haven't gone there, the one at Suntec City for more than 5 years. The variety of things overwhelmed me, most of all the crowd (even though it's just before 11am) and the heat inside the carpark. But I am glad that I bought 2 things - one planned and the other not. A bicycle for Becks which I hope she would use often especially with Gong gong (my dad) and a bunch of yummy Red Globe grapes.
Till next year I guess...
Saturday, March 03, 2007
A book...a powerful 'companion'
My 3rd 'companion' for my trips home from the office - Vanishing Acts by Jodi Picoult. Talk about a skilful author or maybe someone whose style suits me to a T. I thought only movies make me weep but words jumping from plain yellow pages?!Picoult weaves stories based on parents' bond with their children. I noticed that she wrote mostly about daughters, not sons. The same reason why I love intense drama in movies, I find myself soaking into character and getting swept by her words. I wonder where and how she got all that talent. I often imagine that people like her would always be able to turn things around and make us see them as a glass half-full, instead of half-empty.
Thursday, March 01, 2007
I used to possess them too...Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Back...and back again
Albeit a few blisters on my hands, I went to Bangkok on Monday to attend a meeting. It was an easy trip with 3 other colleagues who had bountiful amounts of energy, bulldozing through the lanes in MBK.
Anyway if 4 of us were in a Survivor series, we would be wiped out immediately. Heavily reliant on one another, we missed the flight because one of us heard the gate number wrongly and none of the other 3 bothered to verify and took his information straight-on for granted. When we arrived at Gate E4, my colleague told me it was odd that there wasn't a Singapore Airlines plane waiting anywhere. I took out my ticket, the only one on which the gate number was written (it was issued in Singapore at the express counter) - D4. Well, one might think D & E are only one alphabet different so how far could they be from each other, right? The architect of the new Thai Airport apparently didn't share the same sentiment. After sprinting what-seemed-like-thousands-of-km, we arrived at D4 only to be told that the gate was closed.
Luckily the next flight was only 1.5 hours away and had vacant seats. So like any Aesop's fable, there was a moral learnt from this episode...
Anyway if 4 of us were in a Survivor series, we would be wiped out immediately. Heavily reliant on one another, we missed the flight because one of us heard the gate number wrongly and none of the other 3 bothered to verify and took his information straight-on for granted. When we arrived at Gate E4, my colleague told me it was odd that there wasn't a Singapore Airlines plane waiting anywhere. I took out my ticket, the only one on which the gate number was written (it was issued in Singapore at the express counter) - D4. Well, one might think D & E are only one alphabet different so how far could they be from each other, right? The architect of the new Thai Airport apparently didn't share the same sentiment. After sprinting what-seemed-like-thousands-of-km, we arrived at D4 only to be told that the gate was closed.
Luckily the next flight was only 1.5 hours away and had vacant seats. So like any Aesop's fable, there was a moral learnt from this episode...
Monday, February 26, 2007
Back...
Before you think I've scooted off to my dream holiday in Spain, let me try to explain my absence in a less dramatic way.
After 5 French DVDs, 3 lo heis, countable simple visitations and many many ulcers and blisters, the whole family is almost finally coming out of the infectious period of Hand Foot Mouth Disease.
After 5 French DVDs, 3 lo heis, countable simple visitations and many many ulcers and blisters, the whole family is almost finally coming out of the infectious period of Hand Foot Mouth Disease.
Friday, February 23, 2007
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Analysis with a Twist
4 of us in the company were born in 1974 and since our chemistry isn't too lousy, every now and then, we come together for a self-created and tackily-termed occasion called "The '74 babes' Lunch".
Thanks to Benson's creativity- we had to come up with "The Magnificent 7 people" in the whole company whom we would like to work with. It can be tricky though....and one should not take it personally if your name wasn't mentioned. Haha.
I figured it'll be my turn to ask the questions during the next lunches. Name the top 3 animals one would like to be and why. :P
PS: Funny a craving for potato salad should creep up. One with loads of creamy and crunchy pieces of green apples in it...
Thanks to Benson's creativity- we had to come up with "The Magnificent 7 people" in the whole company whom we would like to work with. It can be tricky though....and one should not take it personally if your name wasn't mentioned. Haha.
I figured it'll be my turn to ask the questions during the next lunches. Name the top 3 animals one would like to be and why. :P
PS: Funny a craving for potato salad should creep up. One with loads of creamy and crunchy pieces of green apples in it...
To be continued...
How could I forget? Though it's post-Valentine's Day, there is a fine reason for me to continue.
The day when...2 people take their relationship to a new/higher level, when marriage proposals pour forth in their most creative/expensive/dramatic way. Apparently my favourite cousin-in-law, Ah Hoho became one of the 1,0000000000000000000 people in the world yesterday to do just that.
And the question was answered favourably. :) It gets executed in Jun 07, so I hear.
Congratulations!!!
The day when...2 people take their relationship to a new/higher level, when marriage proposals pour forth in their most creative/expensive/dramatic way. Apparently my favourite cousin-in-law, Ah Hoho became one of the 1,0000000000000000000 people in the world yesterday to do just that.
And the question was answered favourably. :) It gets executed in Jun 07, so I hear.
Congratulations!!!
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Valentine's Day
The day when:
1. Every dining corner downtown is crowded and everything that can be considered a gift is expensive.
2. People (mostly teenage gals) walk in the streets with a bouquet of flowers in their hands...proudly (not forgetting their boyfriends having to help carry their LV bags...equally proudly).
3. Admin signs out more flowers than any other day from dispatch riders (at reception area).
4. Close friends get together for a simple but heartwarming lunch/dinner/tea break.
5. Friends take the chance to sincerely express (without feeling or sounding weird) they remember one another.
6. I literally walked off from someone, sentence hanging, irritated.
1. Every dining corner downtown is crowded and everything that can be considered a gift is expensive.
2. People (mostly teenage gals) walk in the streets with a bouquet of flowers in their hands...proudly (not forgetting their boyfriends having to help carry their LV bags...equally proudly).
3. Admin signs out more flowers than any other day from dispatch riders (at reception area).
4. Close friends get together for a simple but heartwarming lunch/dinner/tea break.
5. Friends take the chance to sincerely express (without feeling or sounding weird) they remember one another.
6. I literally walked off from someone, sentence hanging, irritated.
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
Wassssup...with you!?!
Colleagues have told me about this particular one in my department who hums whenever she works. And it's very often.
This morning, I probably witnessed the ultimate - she punched her fist in the air and went (to herself): "Yes! I got it correct...so here I am!" Then she started typing. I looked around and thought perhaps someone in front of her, many seats away has arrived. Noone. I looked at her, thinking maybe she would cast her glance at me seconds later after the expression, perhaps she was really sharing with me about her early morning great big discovery. She never looked at me.
Siao!!!!!
This morning, I probably witnessed the ultimate - she punched her fist in the air and went (to herself): "Yes! I got it correct...so here I am!" Then she started typing. I looked around and thought perhaps someone in front of her, many seats away has arrived. Noone. I looked at her, thinking maybe she would cast her glance at me seconds later after the expression, perhaps she was really sharing with me about her early morning great big discovery. She never looked at me.
Siao!!!!!
Monday, February 12, 2007
2 is better than 1 (I think)
Well it better be! My whole objective of having 2 kids within a short span of time (they are 20 months apart) wasn't accidental and/or suicidal.
M is an only child and I have a younger sister who's not close to dating regularly yet. Our cousins who have children close to Becks' age are people whom we see only once/twice a year (Chinese New Year, grandparent's birthday) so I figured Becks having a sibling would definitely be great in terms of companionship and responsibility.
After about 2.5 years now, I see it paying off. The 2 are great together. Sure they fight...but they are showing each other more and more affection day after day. Hope this lasts!
M is an only child and I have a younger sister who's not close to dating regularly yet. Our cousins who have children close to Becks' age are people whom we see only once/twice a year (Chinese New Year, grandparent's birthday) so I figured Becks having a sibling would definitely be great in terms of companionship and responsibility.
After about 2.5 years now, I see it paying off. The 2 are great together. Sure they fight...but they are showing each other more and more affection day after day. Hope this lasts!
Heartwarming Call
"Mummy! I'm making jelly with Ah-ma now!" Becks chattered excitedly over the phone.
All my blues at work went away in that instant. :)
All my blues at work went away in that instant. :)
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Humility
Debs' baby shower was very private and small. Actually it was more like an MGS-Alumni gathering. Anyway, thankfully she had very friendly galfriends, an exceptionally funny one and nice white wine to keep me entertained throughout the 2 hours.
I can say Debs was born with a silver spoon; her husband definitely as well. But they are really such nice people...and Debs and I have come a long way back. We were tight as friends. Within earshot that day, I heard she just bought a new place at Bishan. With shameless probing by the galfriend, I found out that it was a "corner terrace which they decided because a child would need the land to play."
It was said in a calm and humble tone...of course the sentence was far from humble if you choose to think about it. I can't fault her. It's proven that after all these years, she is from another planet.
Land. I mean I'm sure most of us would think of land = the playground downstairs or hopscotch right along the corridor outside your unit.
Oh well.
I can say Debs was born with a silver spoon; her husband definitely as well. But they are really such nice people...and Debs and I have come a long way back. We were tight as friends. Within earshot that day, I heard she just bought a new place at Bishan. With shameless probing by the galfriend, I found out that it was a "corner terrace which they decided because a child would need the land to play."
It was said in a calm and humble tone...of course the sentence was far from humble if you choose to think about it. I can't fault her. It's proven that after all these years, she is from another planet.
Land. I mean I'm sure most of us would think of land = the playground downstairs or hopscotch right along the corridor outside your unit.
Oh well.
Friday, February 09, 2007
Media Influence
I'm not going into a General Paper essay-like blog regarding the above. My stomach is too full (and satisfied) from Maxwell Market's chicken biryani and tapioca cake to handle that.Just remembered what J and I spoke about yesterday, among the many topics. That people in NZ were not being able to identify his nationality based on his 'accent', that his 'accent' is somewhat Americanized. He comes from a simple family where English is not the dominating language spoken at home but his vocabularly range and grasp of the language are admirable. "American TV" was what he gave credit to.
And so I remembered what I grew up with too. "Felicity", "Beverly Hills 90210", "Melrose Place", etc. AND ARCHIE COMICS. Hands up to those who remember them oh so fondly! Archie, Betty & Veronica, Reggie, Big Ethel, Jughead Jones...
Thursday, February 08, 2007
Another Nice Lunchie
Another homecoming of a friend...from NZ. The land of 70,000,000 sheep (Actually I'm just quoting from a T-shirt I bought in 1991 when I visited NZ! I'm sure there's been more breeding since).Thanks for the chocolates, even greater thanks for the ever-active exchange of thoughts and views on everything. For 8 years, you have amazed me with your level-headedness and strong sense of opinions.
Most of all, congratulations! That SF has said 'yes'. You're truly off to a new beginning!
Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
The 'sisterhood' I'm referring to is really the one I share with my real-life flesh n blood sister. Apparently having settled in Ho Chi Minh already, she has been having more time to chat online with me during the day.
I find it odd that I still experience this strange sensation whenever I chat with her. I keep having to remind myself we are both in our 30s. She's a woman now. Not the cute l'le sis whom I used to talk 'codes' with and hugged each time we faced stress during exam periods (our rooms used to be adjacent to each other. She would holler right across whenever she heard one good song on the radio, I would go to the balcony where it's commonground and just chat to take a break from studying).
I'm glad like good friends, we possess good chemistry between us to share various topics with each other. My sister, my friend. :)
Anyway, it's no wonder parents still fuss over most of us even when we are every inch an adult already. It takes quite a lot of conscious reminding to oneself, otherwise one may lose onself and continue treating the other person as if time stood still. I think my current feeling is the closest to that as one can ever experience. Till 15-20 years later, when I cross over to 'the other side' then......
I find it odd that I still experience this strange sensation whenever I chat with her. I keep having to remind myself we are both in our 30s. She's a woman now. Not the cute l'le sis whom I used to talk 'codes' with and hugged each time we faced stress during exam periods (our rooms used to be adjacent to each other. She would holler right across whenever she heard one good song on the radio, I would go to the balcony where it's commonground and just chat to take a break from studying).
I'm glad like good friends, we possess good chemistry between us to share various topics with each other. My sister, my friend. :)
Anyway, it's no wonder parents still fuss over most of us even when we are every inch an adult already. It takes quite a lot of conscious reminding to oneself, otherwise one may lose onself and continue treating the other person as if time stood still. I think my current feeling is the closest to that as one can ever experience. Till 15-20 years later, when I cross over to 'the other side' then......
Wednesday, February 07, 2007
S-P-A-M
"I am interested in finding the standard error of the coefficients rather than the confidence interval.
Does anyone can help me? The original stamps bear a picture of a Curtiss JN-4 plane, known as a Jenny, which was used for training pilots in World War I and later became an airmail plane.
Cathy wishes all of you a safe and happy holiday season and all the best for the upcoming year! Bush and many others in his administration for criminally negligent homicide..." (Bush and many others in his administration for criminally negligent homicide?!!!???)
Yadda yadda yadda....
More and more, day by day, in my work email account. SPAM is indeed my four-letter word! Argh!
Does anyone can help me? The original stamps bear a picture of a Curtiss JN-4 plane, known as a Jenny, which was used for training pilots in World War I and later became an airmail plane.
Cathy wishes all of you a safe and happy holiday season and all the best for the upcoming year! Bush and many others in his administration for criminally negligent homicide..." (Bush and many others in his administration for criminally negligent homicide?!!!???)
Yadda yadda yadda....
More and more, day by day, in my work email account. SPAM is indeed my four-letter word! Argh!
Nice Lunchie
Lunch was with mom today. She thought of the lamb stew at Secret Receipe after having seen people eat on separate occasions at different outlets. So her curiosity was officially satisfied at 12:30pm.
It ended with a nice cuppa Ya Kun beverage. :)
It ended with a nice cuppa Ya Kun beverage. :)
Personal Taste
Apart from main actress, Kate Winslet's credibility and this-time nomination, Little Children seems like my utmost favourite kind of movie. The intense dramas which explore serious issues and human relationships.
I read a journalist's review in today's papers at the pantry table, while my colleagues around me excitedly chattered about lending one another Korean serial dramas. Catch no ball ya know...
While my interest in movies is consistent (hence, predictable), in songs it is not. So I realised. Because the era of soft rock is long over (17 bloomin' years!), we hear quite a lot of crap on the radio these days. Nevertheless, I found myself enjoying the latest singles of Paris Hilton and P. Diddy (some rap that featured Christina Aguilera).
What is wrong with me?!
I read a journalist's review in today's papers at the pantry table, while my colleagues around me excitedly chattered about lending one another Korean serial dramas. Catch no ball ya know...
While my interest in movies is consistent (hence, predictable), in songs it is not. So I realised. Because the era of soft rock is long over (17 bloomin' years!), we hear quite a lot of crap on the radio these days. Nevertheless, I found myself enjoying the latest singles of Paris Hilton and P. Diddy (some rap that featured Christina Aguilera).
What is wrong with me?!
Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Oh Ginger!
Happiness is...when boss is away for a whole week!
I know with more time, I can blog but I lack inspiration and topics completely. So for the sake of making my mark here in his absence, I'll post something very random and what comes to mind.
I just realised that there is "old ginger" and "young ginger". I approach grocery shopping with apathy mostly. But that day I was stumped. What's the difference?! And how old is old anyways?
Domestically (and botany-cally) hopeless is me.
I know with more time, I can blog but I lack inspiration and topics completely. So for the sake of making my mark here in his absence, I'll post something very random and what comes to mind.
I just realised that there is "old ginger" and "young ginger". I approach grocery shopping with apathy mostly. But that day I was stumped. What's the difference?! And how old is old anyways?
Domestically (and botany-cally) hopeless is me.
Monday, February 05, 2007
Excess
There's always trouble when there's excess.
I'm sure you know the dangers to one's health when one consumes too much salt, too much coffee, too much lard, too much of anything, even water. And there's a long-time proverb - "too many cooks spoilt the broth".
What I fear most though - too many women in an office and household (including maid). Personal experience.
I'm sure you know the dangers to one's health when one consumes too much salt, too much coffee, too much lard, too much of anything, even water. And there's a long-time proverb - "too many cooks spoilt the broth".
What I fear most though - too many women in an office and household (including maid). Personal experience.
Sunday, February 04, 2007
Baby Shower
My mind has been alternating more actively recently - to go or not to go. That is the question.
Debs is organizing a baby shower. She told me the theme and the maternity place which would be sponsoring this shower. There are rules for what I thought was a simple gathering. This set me panicking...and dreading.
Before Debs, I knew this other person (not close...thank God) who threw a baby shower. Rich, English-educated and a penchant for hosting anything. I should have known. :P And before this other person, I only knew "Miranda" of Sex and The City and "Ashley" of Junebug throwing them.
I guess it's just me - lazy and low-key (make that 'very' lazy). I guess if there is any way I can do to keep myself away from being the centre of attention, I would. Apart from my own wedding...and well, collecting a Nobel Prize (for ambitious wishful-thinking?!).
Debs is organizing a baby shower. She told me the theme and the maternity place which would be sponsoring this shower. There are rules for what I thought was a simple gathering. This set me panicking...and dreading.
Before Debs, I knew this other person (not close...thank God) who threw a baby shower. Rich, English-educated and a penchant for hosting anything. I should have known. :P And before this other person, I only knew "Miranda" of Sex and The City and "Ashley" of Junebug throwing them.
I guess it's just me - lazy and low-key (make that 'very' lazy). I guess if there is any way I can do to keep myself away from being the centre of attention, I would. Apart from my own wedding...and well, collecting a Nobel Prize (for ambitious wishful-thinking?!).
Saturday, February 03, 2007
Yaya Papaya
Miffy: What is this? (pointing to a fruit)
Mong: *spontaneously* Papayaya!
Miffy: No....try again.
Mong: *cautiously and with conscious effort* Papa.....Ya.
Mong: *spontaneously* Papayaya!
Miffy: No....try again.
Mong: *cautiously and with conscious effort* Papa.....Ya.
Friday, February 02, 2007
Nightmares
The past 2 days had me in deep slumber during the last 1-2 hours before my alarm went off. So my mind was left vivid with those 2 dreams I had.
Actually I would say they were nightmares. Not the adrenalin-pumping, heart-stopping sort that leaves you sweaty but they were pretty gruesome.
One had a gal in my department as a victim in some sick game a.k.a. Saw (for those who have watched any one of the 3) with the executor being a guy from another department. The mastermind (Jigsaw?!) was his boss, as I later found out. In real life, upon reflection, that guy is pretty shrewd and the executor, being someone who does things out of instruction - never more, never less, so I was told. But then, I don't have direct dealings with them so the girl's role (my role) left me baffled. Maybe I'm just short-changing myself, right? Putting myself in a pessimistic light when reality isn't this bad, right? *search sub-consciousness*
Another nightmare had this animal crouching in a corner, patchy, ugly, resembling no less than a hyena. When I got near it careful not to make any noise, it woke up and stretched...and there it was, uglier with a bloated stomach and it had no nose. It circulated around me...and then I think I forced myself to wake up.
Actually I would say they were nightmares. Not the adrenalin-pumping, heart-stopping sort that leaves you sweaty but they were pretty gruesome.
One had a gal in my department as a victim in some sick game a.k.a. Saw (for those who have watched any one of the 3) with the executor being a guy from another department. The mastermind (Jigsaw?!) was his boss, as I later found out. In real life, upon reflection, that guy is pretty shrewd and the executor, being someone who does things out of instruction - never more, never less, so I was told. But then, I don't have direct dealings with them so the girl's role (my role) left me baffled. Maybe I'm just short-changing myself, right? Putting myself in a pessimistic light when reality isn't this bad, right? *search sub-consciousness*
Another nightmare had this animal crouching in a corner, patchy, ugly, resembling no less than a hyena. When I got near it careful not to make any noise, it woke up and stretched...and there it was, uglier with a bloated stomach and it had no nose. It circulated around me...and then I think I forced myself to wake up.
Here kitty kitty kitty...
The morning rush downstairs and across the street to catch my bus is a norm. To have a very dark cat literally and frantically dashing past my path is not (so frantic so sudden that I let out an involuntary "whoa").I am not superstitious at all but my curiosity got the better of me. I googled to satisfy it and found in OldSuperstitions.com a long string of stuff. Amazing.
So anyway the cat wasn't really black...
Thursday, February 01, 2007
Maids & Us
There are always 2 sides to a coin.
We employers fear getting a new maid who is unreliable (sneaky, lazy, always falling ill, untruthful, etc.) but have we ever considered their situation? They are standing at an even more vulnerable spot. They can't choose their employers, they are clueless (other than our voices over the phone- some agencies allow phone intereviews) about our background, our personality.
But so many times, I find my friends/colleagues talk about maids as if they are the horror of the worlds. "Nanny" told me about her impossible mother who never lets the maid out of her sight, who unhooks the telephone wire and locks the telephone in a room which the maid has no access. I also kinda recall DDD relating a story about her difficult sister-in-law who instructs her maid to hang specific type of laundry using a specific coloured bamboo pole. Once, a colleague who complained about her maid every other time wanted to retain her when her contract was expiring...that left me puzzled. Then she explained simply why she would rather retain than engage a new one. "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't."
Geez...so who's really the 'devil'? I guess some of us fail to check our reflection in the mirror regularly.
We employers fear getting a new maid who is unreliable (sneaky, lazy, always falling ill, untruthful, etc.) but have we ever considered their situation? They are standing at an even more vulnerable spot. They can't choose their employers, they are clueless (other than our voices over the phone- some agencies allow phone intereviews) about our background, our personality.
But so many times, I find my friends/colleagues talk about maids as if they are the horror of the worlds. "Nanny" told me about her impossible mother who never lets the maid out of her sight, who unhooks the telephone wire and locks the telephone in a room which the maid has no access. I also kinda recall DDD relating a story about her difficult sister-in-law who instructs her maid to hang specific type of laundry using a specific coloured bamboo pole. Once, a colleague who complained about her maid every other time wanted to retain her when her contract was expiring...that left me puzzled. Then she explained simply why she would rather retain than engage a new one. "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't."
Geez...so who's really the 'devil'? I guess some of us fail to check our reflection in the mirror regularly.
The Beginning....
Becks brought home something yesterday. Something which marks another milestone. No, not a boyfriend (I hope this doesn't happen till at least 15 years later!), something simpler. Homework.
So from yesterday on, every Wednesday, she will have Chinese homework and Friday, English and Math. My little girl is really growing up...(as if I need any more reminders...)
So from yesterday on, every Wednesday, she will have Chinese homework and Friday, English and Math. My little girl is really growing up...(as if I need any more reminders...)
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